Can we plan for a voyeuristic life together

Many couples here are struggling to accept us in their life, because everyone here contact us regarding swinging and then disappear with that idea too, after we say we are only here for voyeurism.

First thing you need is, to convince yourself and your wife, regarding your desires, then understand it, whether it is voyeurism or swinging, because Voyeurism is not about only others watching you & Swinging is not about switching your wife's to have sex.

Our first advice is, don’t expect too much from our first meet up and don’t talk about things you are going or not going to do during our meet up with your wife. Understanding about your needs and experiencing this new thrills makes you to enjoy a bit more. This may take one or two casual meet ups ie. first for a coffee and then for a dinner.

Therefore, if you are bit nervous, you can settle it in with good talk about each other. Because many people here don't have much time for few casual meet-ups and don't have that much patience to discuss & understand about everything surrounding them.

However, if we can plan for a weekend together far away from our homes, that will definitely do the trick.

Many people are not interested to talk to their wife about voyeurism itself, but try to convince them to accept to get into other person's bed ie. swinging lifestyle. It will take time and lot of efforts to talk about this idea with your wife especially with the social & cultural restrictions that you have been brought up.

You or your wife may be very jealous, when thinking about others seeing you, during the act. However, performing in front of others would be very liberating experience ie. exhibitionism.

You will learn a lot about each other during this act, provided you were here to enjoy yourself, because you never know your interests, until you get your first experiences together. May be you can learn one or two mentoring lessons too from us.

So, don’t push yourself into anything or restrict yourself out of anything. You’ll never know what will happen at the end. Make your first voyeuristic experience that you remember for lifetime with us and don't make it your last, because many more are yet to be discovered in your life.

All the best to whatever you choose in your life provided that makes you happy and keeps you going in your life!🤞

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