Romance in the Lifestyle

I never thought of myself as being an ignorant kind of guy, but I have to admit that I bit the big one here. Reason why? I'll explain.

I've only been in the lifestyle for a year or so, and in that time I've joined a few swinger dating websites to meet new people. The one thing these sites had in common were female profiles that talked about looking for their soulmate and possibly marriage in the future. At first I thought that it might be a joke, as I couldn't fathom the idea of someone looking for their soulmate on a swinger dating site?

But I soon realized that the big question is. Why wouldn't you? The reason my marriage failed was because we were two different people that had different ideas of what intimacy meant (i.e. sex). What better place to find that someone special especially if you both have similar fantasies, wants and desires. A couple that plays together, stays together. Isn't that how the saying goes.

So who knows, maybe I could meet that special person. Maybe this is the place to find her. (or him?) You never know.

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