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An Introduction to BDSM

4:50 am Thursday, 16th April, 2020


When I arrived at her 4th floor apartment, to pick her up to go out for dinner, there was a note thumbtacked to the door.  That surprised me, as although we were not living together, I had a key, and I usually just entered without knocking.

The note was a bit of a surprise.  It was a roleplay scenario.  I was a gangster, a mob enforcer, and she supposedly had information that I needed to elicit from her as to the whereabouts of a gang informant.  I was to do whatever I felt I needed to do to get that information from her. And she added a postscript to this, if she ever said, "Does Louie know you are here?" I was to stop what I was doing, and make sure she was ok.  At that point in my life I had no idea what a "safe" word was, thought she just described it.

At that point in my life I knew the term S&M but had no real idea what it was, or that there was a whole subculture of Cuckolding and BDSM existing below the surface.  She was 10 years older than me, and Audrey was giving me an education. She had a one bedroom apartment, and the bedroom was spectacular even when she was not in the bed.  she had a 4-poster king bed, and a matching 76" by 80" mirror on the ceiling over the bed.  

I walked into the apartment and found her tied to the bed in an X. Both legs and one arm were tied down.  she was wearing sexy tattered old clothes that I knew I could rip off her as she had only worn them so that I could do that.  I tied down her other arm, very clumsily.  at that point in my life, I did not know about knots, or what type of rope i should be using.  that was a night I will never forget.

afterwards we were taking a shower together, and she was already talking about another idea for our next date.  for her, it was a fun evening.  for me it was an epiphany.  I knew it had touched something deep inside me, but now that I know that it exists, what do I do?  where do I go?  For Audrey it was a one-off, but for me I knew it went much deeper than that.  It was a total epiphany.

I did not know where to go, or even who to ask. 6 months later I was in Marina del Rey in a new age bookstore, and I found a copy of PROMETHEUS magazine that was put out by a NYC bdsm club.  In it, it listed BDSM clubs in about 10 major metropolitan cities.  That let me to KBA, Kinky by A...., which was a dying Chicago club, but in turn let me to GD, which still exists today, under different management.

That was my introduction.  who invited you to this party?



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