9:49 am Tuesday, 8th January, 2019
When you masturbate, you probably have certain fantasies that really get you off. Dirty daydreams that you return to over and over. But when it comes to the most popular sex fantasies that we think about on the regular, you might be surprised to find out what actually makes the top three.
If these three fantasies tickle your interest, take a look at what you can do to make them a reality.
Threesome
Whatever our sexual preference or relationship status, we love to dream about getting frisky between the sheets as a threesome. Why? Well, why not! You may be categorically heterosexual but find yourself turned on by the idea of enjoying the attention of someone who has an intimate same-sex knowledge of what feels good. But, then again, who doesn’t want to be the centre of attention? Two lovers making it their chief responsibility to please you… It’s hot stuff and a top fantasy for many.
How To Make It Happen
For people who value monogamy as an important aspect of a relationship, threesomes can sound intimidating. Like all sexual fantasies, the desire for a ménage à trois should be introduced as an exciting new adventure to try together. It should also be discussed only when the relationship feels rock-solid. Make sure to set rules and limitations before you even begin trying to find a third person. Discuss what can and cannot be done as specifically as possible. Is penetration allowed? What about kissing?. The ideal third is someone you trust but will not have to see regularly. Do not pick someone you harbour romantic feelings for, as this could make your partner feel (understandably) insecure. When it’s finally time to do the deed, don’t jump into bed together right away. Relax together, have a small alcoholic drink to loosen everyone up and help you get to know each other
Bi-curious
Whether it’s to satisfy your natural curiosity, feed your mischievous needs, or simply out of sheer attraction, a lot of people will agree that they’ve had their fair share of same-sex fantasies. Naturally, we fantasise about what it would be like to be with someone of the same sex, someone who knows just how they want to be touched and what will make them orgasm.
How To Make It Happen
Start by exploring the idea of hooking up with someone of the same sex using your imagination. Consider what qualities and physical characteristics you’re attracted to. Let’s face it, chances are you are not going to go around winking at sexy strangers hoping they will fulfil your curiosity. So the best place to find somebody to explore with is online. It’s a lot less intimidating to chat someone up this way. You’ll also get a chance to talk things through with the other person before committing to anything to make sure you’re on the same page. Once you’re in the midst of your hookup, just enjoy it! Don’t think about what it means or whether this makes you bi or not. Notice what you’re feeling in your body, but don’t analyse it. Have fun!
Domination
Some people like to be in charge, instead of being submissive all the time. Imagine what it could be like to indulge in all kinds of kinky acts. The domination scenario revolves around your partner worshipping your body and begging you for attention. Tying them up and doing whatever you wish to them or telling them to perform sexual acts on you, as well as making them beg for what they want are just a few things that run around in a dom’s mind when doing the deed.
How To Make It Happen
If you don't want to hire a professional, it is possible to find a Dominant or submissive play partner who is interested purely in play and not a romantic or social relationship. The best way to find this is through the site as it has been designed to facilitate meetings between like-minded fetishists. You can see what their fetishes are, and you can contact each other and go from there. Another thing to consider is that Dom/Sub relationships, even when they're not romantic, have a mental aspect to them that can be extremely intense. It's important to think about this before entering a BDSM situation with someone, whether it be a one-time thing or a full-fledged relationship and to discuss the limits to your relationship.
Do you have a go-to fantasy that tips you over the edge? Share you dirty daydreams in the comments below, we’d love to hear them.
