9:46 am Tuesday, 8th January, 2019
When you masturbate, you probably have certain fantasies that really get you off. Dirty daydreams that you return to over and over. But when it comes to the most popular sex fantasies that women think about on the regular, you might be surprised to find out what actually makes the top three.
If these three fantasies tickle your interest, take a look at what you can do to make them a reality.
Threesome
Whatever our sexual preference or relationship status, we love to dream about getting frisky between the sheets as a threesome. Why? Well, why not! You may be categorically heterosexual but find yourself turned on by the idea of enjoying the attention of someone who has an intimate female knowledge of what feels good. But, then again, who doesn’t want to be the centre of attention? Two guys making it their chief responsibility to please you… It’s hot stuff and a top fantasy for many women.
How To Make It Happen
For people who value monogamy as an important aspect of a relationship, threesomes can sound intimidating. Like all sexual fantasies, the desire for a ménage à trois should be introduced as an exciting new adventure to try together. It should also be discussed when the relationship feels rock-solid. Make sure to set rules and limitations before you even begin trying to find a third person. Discuss what can and cannot be done as specifically as possible. Is penetration allowed? What about kissing?. The ideal third is someone you trust but will not have to see regularly. Do not pick someone you harbour romantic feelings for, as this could make your partner feel (understandably) insecure. When it’s finally time to do the deed, don’t jump into bed together right away. Relax together, have a small alcoholic drink to loosen everyone up and help you get to know each other
Girl on Girl
Whether it’s to satisfy your natural curiosity, feed your mischievous needs, or simply out of sheer attraction, most girls will agree that they’ve had their fair share of girl-on-girl fantasies. Naturally, women fantasise about what it would be like to be with someone of the same sex, someone who knows just how she wants to be touched and what will make her orgasm. No surprising that lesbians are the top searched category on porn sites by women.
How To Make It Happen
Start by exploring the idea of hooking up with another woman using your imagination. Consider what qualities and physical characteristics you’re attracted to in women. Let’s face it, chances are you are not going to go around winking at sexy strangers hoping they will fulfil your curiosity. So the best place to find somebody to explore with is online. It’s a lot less intimidating to chat someone up this way. You’ll also get a chance to talk things through with the other person before committing to anything to make sure you’re on the same page. Once you’re in the midst of your hookup, just enjoy it! Don’t think about what it means or whether this makes you bi or not. Notice what you’re feeling in your body, but don’t analyse it. Have fun!
Dominatrix
Some women like to dominate men, instead of getting dominated all the time. Imagine what it could be like to indulge in all kinds of kinky acts. The dominatrix scenario revolves around the man worshipping your body and begging you for attention. Tying him up and doing whatever you wish to them or telling him to perform sexual acts on you, as well as making him beg for what he wants are just a few things that run around in a woman's mind when doing the deed.
How To Make It Happen
Dominance is not just a type of power over someone else during the odd, kinky, sexual encounter, or it can be, but for some, it’s a way of life. The dominant of a couple will usually be referred to as ‘Mistress’ when being spoken to by their sex slaves. The dominant should be confident in what their boundaries are for the slave’s behaviour if they’re pushing their luck, a little warning may suffice. Should you fancy being empowered by becoming a respected and powerful mistress then good for you, but do keep in mind what we’ve said after all just because you possess power doesn’t mean you can abuse it. The best doms are some of the most caring and empathic people that not only dominate their sub but also respect and protect them.
Do you have a go-to fantasy that tips you over the edge? Share you dirty daydreams in the comments below, we’d love to hear them.
