12:04 pm Tuesday, 28th August, 2018
In centuries past, a cuckold was a man who was publicly humiliated because he couldn’t satisfy his wife sexually and had to endure another man stepping in to please her. Today, it has taken on a different meaning: couples experimenting with bringing another man into their sex life called a “bull,” who usually has a larger penis or more sexual stamina than the husband or partner.
Cuckolding Sex can be very exciting for all three parties taking part – the Bull, the Hotwife and the Cuckold Husband who is usually on the sidelines watching. But if all three players don’t follow basic cuckolding sex etiquette, things can get ugly very quickly. In this article, we are going to take a look at the roles each participant has to play to make sure everyone's needs are satisfied.
What Is A Cuckold Husband?
For the husband, humiliation can be a major part of the turn on. The fantasy or the reality of his wife having sex with other men and being forced to watch or participate in the adultery of his wife is highly erotic for him. Some couples, or men, prefer the cuckold to observe only on camera, or to be locked into a closet during the sex. Or he may be willingly gagged and forced to watch. Depending on the cuck husband's rules, they may participate in varying degrees, such as being made to arouse the bull and/or the wife before the sex takes place, and then cleaning both up afterwards.
What Is The Hotwife
The wife in a cuckolding relationship is often referred to as a hotwife and is usually the one who gets to pick and choose who she has sex with. The person that she selects to have sex with is often much more well hung than her cuckold husband and can satisfy her sexually, unlike her husband. It is usually her decision on how long a relationship with a Bull will last, and how far they will go.
What Is A Bull?
The bull is the lucky man that the hotwife chooses to be unfaithful to her husband with. The wife and bull may date regularly by going out to dinner, clubs, movies, etc. Or the wife and the bull may just meet once for sex. He almost always knows how to satisfy the hotwife so that she can have endless orgasms. He is usually much better looking than the cuckold husband and in very good shape.
Setting The Rules
If you’re interested in experiencing a cuckold relationship, it’s important to hash out all the details with your partner beforehand. Discuss the possible emotions that could come up for the both of you before, during and after the act. Ask questions such as - “Is there anything off-limits?”, “What would be your dream scenario?”. Do not expect cuckolding to repair a broken relationship; it takes a strong couple with mutual kinks to make it work.
Understand Everyone's Needs
You have discussed your needs with your partner, but once the bull enters your home, as a group you should consider everyone’s boundaries that can and cannot be crossed before any fucking commences. Ultimately you are in charge of the situation, and the bull needs to respect your views as a couple. Never go behind one another’s back and ask for specific requests from the bull without prior discussing them with your partner.
Arranging Meets
Once you establish everyone’s expectations about frequency, another thing to discuss is how the meetings are arranged. Some people prefer regular schedules, i.e. every Saturday night for instance. Others like more flexibility, and even spontaneous sessions. It’s important to know what is suitable for all involved. If they’re into the wife having the freedom to reach out to the Bull when she’s horny, or if you all agree that she’s “sexually on demand” to the Bull, then you can all enjoy impromptu daytime, lunchtime, or late-night quickies.
Getting Down To It
A significant part of the cuckold fetish for the husband is the humiliation. He want’s to feel worthless, that he can not satisfy his wife, so this hot younger bull has to step in to please her. Verbal play from the bull and the wife is a crucial part of the play, teasing and taunting the husband by telling him how good his wife fucks and how much she loves the bulls cock more than his. Knowing his wife has been slutty and unfaithful is what turns the husband on the most.
Is The Cuckolded Husband Ever Involved?
Whether or not the cuckolded husband is involved depends on the individuals in the cuckold relationship. Sometimes the husband must suck on the bulls dick in order to get it ready to have sex with the hotwife. It does not necessarily mean either of the parties is gay or bi-sexual, but maybe something that is necessary for the dynamics of the relationship. By coercing the cuckold husband to do this, the alpha male is establishing complete dominance over the beta male. After the bull is done having sex with the wife, the cuckold may also have to "clean up" both the wive's pussy and the studs cock as a sign of respect. Generally, however, the bull does not fuck the beta male, but it all just depends on the couple's and the bull’s desires.
Do you fantasise about cuckolding? Have you ever been apart of a cuck relationship? Let us know in the comments below.
