10:21 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018
We are celebrating National Peach Month in the only way we know how and that is to turn something sweet and innocent into something dirty for your kinky pleasure ;-)
Anal sex is the bedroom’s Marmite move, but if you love some anal action and want to give it a try, then here are a few sex positions to get stuck in.
For starters, anal sex is more than just pulling off the porn star doggy style. In fact, doggy style can be one of the least enjoyable positions when you first start off with some bum fun - who would have thought huh?
Before you start, you need to know and respect that anal sex is a whole other ball game as opposed to some frontal fun, which means you'll both need to act with a bit more preparation and care. Raring to go? Let’s get started.
The Curled Angel
Starting off in a sexy spoon position is the right way to go, so lie down in the classic spoon position with your partner and bend your bodies together. This position is great because you’ll both be pretty relaxed (which is key to the enjoyment of anal) and depending who is big spoon they’ll be able to reach around to their partner's other important parts. A side by side 'spoons' position is a great way to start, especially if the little spoon bends and stretches their upper legs away from their body, as this automatically begins to open the external sphincter a little.
The Double Decker
You can also flip the side spoon on it's back too. In the Double Decker position, you can start off in your spoon and then move your bodies towards the ceiling. You'll still have the closeness that you want from classic spooning sex but with a little twist. Plus the little spoon gets a bit more control from being on top; you just have to not mind getting a bit squished. And if they like the feeling of this position, you can move onto our next set of tricks.
Afternoon Delight
If you get a bit bored with simple spooning then you can try this variation. Afternoon Delight sees you at the same position but the partner receiving turned onto their back at a 90-degree angle, and the top can enter them from there. Again the one that is receiving, their anus will be at a wider, more relaxed angle so penetration will be easier. The one penetrating will also be able to reach all their lovely important parts, and they can give the tops balls some extra attention too.
The Rocking Horse
Control is especially important for anal sex; as this is such a sensitive area, it is crucial that they have some control over what is going on down there. But on top (literally) of you and your partner having top-notch pillow talk, the bottom can also take matters into their own hands. The Rocking Horse requires the bottom to sit cross-legged and lean back to support themselves as the bottom straddles them. This variation of one of you being on top allows for more intimacy between you both as well as greater sensations as one grinds up against the other.
Reverse Cowgirl
One of the most popular positions, but did you know it’s also great for anal sex? Not only is the bottom on top and can take the other in as deep as they like, as fast or slow as they like, but also the top will be able to see everything that they do. A feast for the eyes. Both of your hands are free to explore each other, so no sensation should go unmissed. So get into the Reverse Cowgirl position, the penetrator lies down with their legs together, while the receiver turns facing away, bending their legs as they straddle. Yeeee Haaaaw!!!
The Hinge
Now we're moving towards the realms of the much-anticipated doggy style with The Hinge. In this position, the receiver is still on top as though they were in Reverse Cowgirl but this time the need to leans forward onto their forearms and rest one leg between the penetrator. This is also a great opportunity for the top to pay a bit more attention to their partners front hot spots and they get full access to their lovely butt - exactly what you're both after.
The Cross
This is another great position for anal sex. Simply lifting a leg can make a whole lot of difference. With this position, the bottom lies down on their back as the bottom edges towards them pinning their leg down using their own. Then lift their other leg up and slide in between them. Just be careful with this one as the top has a lot of control, so make sure the bottom is ready for it.
The Side Kick
One of the more sensual positions for anal sex. The key to anal (apart from plenty of lube of course) is for your muscles to be super-calm down there. This position allows the penetrator to get the kick out of being able to enter their partner from behind as well as massaging their partner's body all over, releasing all their tensions.The angle doesn't allow for penetration to be too deep, so it's one of the better positions for working your way up to full doggy sex.
So there you have it, sessions exploring the anal area before intercourse are important to help both partners relax and learn how their bodies respond to anal stimulation. To get the most out of anal sex, it's best to be prepared with plenty of foreplay (and lots of lube). Got any more tips or want to share an experience, tell us in the comments.
