10:42 am Monday, 2nd July, 2018
We all know that specific oral skills can cause immense pleasure for our playmates and we certainly don’t complain when we’re on the receiving end.
Our bodies contain millions upon millions of nerve endings, with some sending sexy shivers up your spine more than others. Also known as erogenous zones, these horny hot spots, if teased in the right way, can turn a regular orgasm into one of your dirtiest dreams.
From dirty talk to oral sex, we love a bit of mouth action, but are you using it to its fullest potential? Well, pucker up because here are four mouth-watering erogenous zones to kiss, bite, lick and suck.
Neck and Ears
The neck and ears both have a high concentration of light-touch receptors, which go wild when kissed, licked and sucked. Because the skin in this area is thin, it does not take a lot to send them into overdry. Even the feeling of gentle breath on the nape of the neck can send shivers down his spine. Giving this area a great deal of attention is a good and quick way to get him horny.
Top Tip - This is a great erogenous zone to start stimulating, even before your partner is fully aroused. Start off by kissing the hairline on his neck, trace your tongue along various parts of his neck and gently suck, (without leaving marks). Focusing your mouth on his neck can easily lead to sucking the earlobe and tracing your tongue along the outer edge of the ear. The ear is also a sexy spot to nibble – nothing too rough (unless that’s what you both want), but tantalising nibbling can be a lot of fun and very stimulating.
Stomach
The lower abdomen, particularly the area below the belly button, is home to a network of nerves connected to the penis. This means that fondling the skin of the abdomen is like “nudging” his cock into activity. You should be careful, though, as some can find abdominal stimulation unbearably ticklish, to the point it turns him off. That being said, just being able to see you venturing further down his body will be enough to turn him on.
Top Tip - Tease him into submission by planting a gentle kiss, drawing lines and circles with your finger, or signing your name on his belly with the tip of your tongue, will be enough to stimulate his hot spots. This area is also great for playing with temperature: try sucking on an ice cube or sipping hot tea before you put your mouth to his skin.
Lips
As this article is all about using your mouth, we had to include the luscious lips themselves. The lips are one of the top erogenous zones across the whole body, due to their high concentration of naughty nerve endings. Locking lips sends signals to the brain, which release the feel-good hormones oxytocin and serotonin, which translates into a higher state of sexual arousal. Now it makes sense why kissing is such a turn on.
Top Tip - We tend to have a quick kiss mainly before and after the main course of sex, with the odd smooch during the boning. However, try extending your mouth to mouth action before getting down to it, to really amp up the sexual tension between you both. Employing the combination of sucks, pecks, and nibbles to his lips and the delay to dive straight into penetrative sex will leave him hot under the collar.
Perineum
If you haven't heard about the perineum before, you're in for a pleasant surprise. The perineum is the patch of skin located between your man's testicles and his anus, the area that holds the 'ejaculatory’ muscles. For many men, this is the third most sensitive spot on his body after the testicles and penis. When these little areas are stimulated, the results can be quite pleasurable – even orgasmic.
Top Tip - To test his reaction to touching of the perineum area, this one is best stimulated during a blowjob. With your free hand, gently grip and massage his pelvic bone, with your thumb gently pressing below his sack. Let your thumb move further down as you cup his balls, as he is nearing closer to cuming, apply pressure to the fleshy area and watch him blow like never before.
Where is your favourite spot to be kissed? (besides the obvious...behave) ;-) Let us know in the comments below.
