10:55 am Monday, 23rd April, 2018
Handcuffs, spanking, costumes, and stripteases — we've all got our fantasies. The good thing is, you can very easily make some of those sexy dreams come true. The key to keeping things exciting is confidence, and one of the hottest things you can do for your bedmate, is take control and give them a good ride — literally.
We know, we know... sometimes all you want to do is rip off each other's clothes and get down to business. But there's something to be said for delayed gratification. Our favorite form of this is with an expertly executed strip show. Check out these 11 tips in honour of International Dance Day this week, for some easy ways to get your partner hot and bothered in the bedroom.
Practice
Try out different moves and clothing to music in front of a mirror, or next time you and your playmate are getting ready for some fun in the bedroom, slowly start to undress in front of them. Try to maintain eye contact while you do this for as long as possible. It's not the easiest thing in the world to do, but it will help prepare you for when you actually perform an erotic dance.
Wear Something Sexy
Dress in layers so you have more to peel off. The ideal lap dance lingerie consists of lacy bra and panties, garter belt, stockings and top it off with a sexy slip or one of his shirts. Stilettos and knee-high boots are sexy and if you feel confident then great but bare feet in just your nylons can bring him to his knees.
Set The Mood
Dim the lights, or place a scarf over a lamp to create lighting that flatters every inch of your naked body. You could light some candles...I don't need to lecture on fire safety as we’re all adults here but just be careful where your clothes land when you whip them off.
Get Your Groove On
Pick a few songs that have a strong beat but aren’t too fast. Choose music that you both love. Stay away from songs that will seem “funny,” or have no rhythm to them. Stick with classic stripping song like:
- “Human Nature” by Madonna.
- “In Your Eyes” by Kylie Minogue
- “Slow” by Kylie Minogue
- “Closer” by Nine Inch Nails
- “Naughty Girl” by Beyonce
Move Slowly
Don’t rush your dance. A striptease is a slow seduction, not a disco. You’re aiming to entice, seduce, and arouse your lover. Move your body slowly, take small steps, and gently slide slowly up and down a doorframe or wall whilst giving him that orgasmic look.
It’s All In The Hips
You HAVE to use your hips! Swaying isn’t really sexy, it’s lazy. You don’t want to go belly dancer hips crazy, but you do want to very slowly move your hips from side to side as you bend your knees and straighten them up again. Hip motion shows your capability to move in bed, and it’s the most enticing way to do an erotic tease.
Remove One Item At A Time
Don’t take all of your clothes off at once, play up the article of clothing you are about to take off. Slide the strap or sleeve of your slip up and down your shoulder before finally letting it slip down your body. Then once you’ve removed it, caress the body part you've just revealed, drawing attention to the fact that it's now nude.
Get Up Close
Get really close to him when performing your striptease. I don't know why, but this will make you feel a lot more comfortable. When you're far away, it will feel like he's looking at you intensely. But when you're really close-up, this feeling will almost completely vanish.
Straddle Him
Since he will be sitting down for the entire duration. If you're facing him, bend over slightly and lower the top part of your body so your breasts are at eye level. Then, put your hands around his head or shoulders and pull him in so he can kiss them. If you have your back to him, try grinding on him.
Move Between Levels
Throughout the tease, transition between standing, getting down on your hands and knees and then sliding onto your stomach. It's more interesting for him to watch if you switch things up, plus it lets him view your hot bod from all angles.
Ditch Your Panties
Stand with your feet parallel, hook your thumb into the waistband of your panties. Bend your knees and pull your panties down just a hint, teasing, playing with the edges, but then pull them back up. Let them drop to your ankle, step out of one side, and with your other leg kick them in his direction.
Remember, a striptease is all about wanting what you can’t have. You can eventually give in and give him what he wants, of course. Why not finish it off with oral sex. How's that for a striptease?
Have you ever performed an lap dance? Would you? Let us know in the comments below :-)
