10:45 am Monday, 23rd April, 2018
This week we are celebrating International Dance Day and if there is one sexy act that can make men weak at the knees, it has to be a lap dance. We know, we know... sometimes all you want to do is rip off each other's clothes and get down to business. But there's something to be said for delayed gratification. Our favorite form of this is with an expertly executed strip show.
But...for a woman to strip off with confidence, you need to play a part in making her feel comfortable. Check out these 5 tips to help make your playmate feel like a striptease sex goddess.
Asking For A Dance
A striptease isn't necessarily the first fantasy a woman wants to play out as it places all focus on her body, which you have to be aware off when asking for a dance. Be honest with your kinks, and let her express hers, act out any fantasies you both feel comfortable with. Always tell her how hot her naked body is, never place a negative thought in her mind. If you are open, comfortable and sexually confident as a couple, asking for a lap dance and any other kinks should come easy.
Buy Something Sexy
Yes, we know the ultimate goal is to get their clothes off, but sexy underwear can transform the way a woman feels about herself. Choose pieces that you are confident she will like and avoid awkward straps and fiddly items. You want there to be enough garments for her to take off, to draw out the dance. Include items, such as stocking, suspender belt, and kimono, she can’t show you the goods too soon, it is a tease after all.
Set The Mood
Dim the lights, or place a scarf over a lamp to create lighting that flatters every inch of her naked body. You could light some candles...I don't need to lecture on fire safety as we’re all adults here but just be careful where her clothes land when she whips them off.
Saucy Songs
Pick a few songs that have a strong beat but aren’t too fast. Choose music that you both love. Stay away from songs that will seem “funny,” or have no rhythm to them. Stick with classic stripping song like:
- “Human Nature” by Madonna.
- “In Your Eyes” by Kylie Minogue
- “Slow” by Kylie Minogue
- “Closer” by Nine Inch Nails
- “Naughty Girl” by Beyonce
Be Enthusiastic
Don’t just sit still, with your eyes looking at the ground. Make eye contact, and let your eyes follow her hands as she touches her body. If you sense slight reservation in her, give her some commands:
- "Let your robe fall off your shoulders, slowly…”
- ”Run your hands down your body and moan...”
- ”Let me kiss your breasts…”
- ”Peal your stockings sensually down your legs…”
Remember, a striptease is all about wanting what you can’t have, so enjoy it. Let her do her thing and if she decides your not allowed to touch then don’t touch.
Have you ever had a lap dance from a partner? Let us know in the comments below ;-)
