11:08 am Tuesday, 3rd April, 2018
Most people view a normal relationship as a twosome and adding other bodies is cheating but not all of us agree. Having sex with other couples can be really hot if done for the right reasons.
We have touched on the subject of swinging in a previous article and it received a big response. So what better way to celebrate National Couple Appreciation Month this April than to go into more detail about getting into the swing lifestyle.
There are many different styles of swinging and they all depend on your preference, reaching a compromise can be the biggest challenge you face in this new way of life.
The different types include:
Soft Swing
This is perfect for the first time as it involves kissing, stroking and venturing south with one or more people. You can do this with your partner present and have multiple lovers, giving you a gentle introduction that doesn’t take you too far.
Voyeurism and Exhibitionism
One of the ultimate fantasies is to have sex with someone watching or to watch a partner having sex with another. Swinging covers this, allowing couples that enjoy voyeurism to live out their dreams. Watching is allowed in group sessions only, whereas Exhibitionism is allowed in a private setting.
Peak Swap
Probably the definition of swinging itself and what the majority of non-swingers imagine when picturing the activity. It usually involves having penetrative sex with anyone other than your usual partner although variations are allowed.
Threesome
One of the most common methods of starting in the swinging lifestyle for beginners. This explains why single women
(unicorns) are more sought after than single men as this is a preferred swinging activity of choice for many couples, usually with the extra head being female. Many use this as a way to decide if they like swinging, having their partner present as they indulge in another.
Group Game/Orgy
This term signifies the activities involving multiple players in the same layout. It usually defines a group of four or more people interacting sexually. The most common is two couples, although it can be any gender of four or more people.
Bi
People of the same gender interacting with each other sexually. This is much more common among women than men, but it doesn’t mean every woman will indulge in it. Bisexuality among men is extremely rare in the swinging community, and is usually frowned upon if not organized prior, and is usually preferred in a separate area.
Extreme Swinging
Fulfilling every fantasy from BDSM to water sports. The majority of these are very uncommon at most swingers’ parties unless the hosts have chosen a theme for the night, in which case you will be notified well before the night of the party.
What type of swinging are you interested in? Let us know in the comments below.
