11:11 am Monday, 5th March, 2018
Get on your knees boys, this week we are celebrating a day dedicated to the finer things in life, women and oral sex.
This week it is International Women's day and because we want to help you drive any woman wild in the bedroom and not because you left your socks on the floor again...we have everything you need to know to give her the best oral orgasm of her life.
Make Her Comfortable
If you haven’t noticed already, sometimes it can take a woman a lot longer to reach orgasm than a man. We, women, have our body insecurities which can hold us back from fully letting go. Start the foreplay by getting hands-on in the shower and tell her how hot her naked body is, once clean, lead her to the bedroom. Be confident, tell her to make herself comfortable because of what your about to do to her. If she feels like she’s with a guy who isn’t in a rush and is happy to please for however long it is, that’s a turn on in itself!
Make Pit Stops
Getting up, shifting your body down, and honing in on her vagina like a heat-seeking tongue missile is the opposite of sexy. Take your time, and make sure you are both feeling turned on before you venture south. Work your way down by kissing her neck, breasts, stomach, and inner thighs. Side note, if you have bad stubble on your chin, forget it; no girl wants razor burns in such a sensitive place.
Start Gently
Many women say that oral sex gives them more stimulation than penetration. So remember to take it easy and avoid being rough, especially to begin with. Look where you are going too. Gently part the outer lips of the vagina and look for the vaginal opening and the hooded clitoris above it. These are the most pleasurable areas to stimulate and are the key to giving the best head. Thrusting a tongue in and out of the vagina might feel good for a moment or two, but it won’t be enough to tip her over the edge.
Spread The Love
She loves it when you focus your attention on the clit. However, if you focus all your attention on one spot, it gets super sensitive bordering on painful. Mix it up! Use your entire tongue. Make it flat. Make it pointy. Make it soft. Make it rigid. Her love button has 8,000 nerve endings, and you can stimulate them all!
Try Sucking
Licking is the go-to move during oral, obviously, but (gentle) sucking is a good way to mix it up too. Try a little over her clit, and see how she reacts. If she’s into it, go a bit harder.
Watch Her Body Language
We know most of you men love pussy and can get quite passionate about it but take a moment to focus on how she is responding to your oral offering. If she’s repeatedly arching her back or shifting her hips in a way that moves your tongue away from its current maneuver, there’s probably a reason for it. Go to the next move, man.
DON’T Forget The Fingers!
Once she is good and warmed up, get in there with your fingers! Many women enjoy one or two fingers inside their vagina while you kiss and suck on her sweet spot. You may find her thrashing around in your bed from a blended orgasm when you try this technique. Just be sure your fingers are very clean and that you have filed down any rough nail edges.
Get Into It
If she senses you're feeling the least bit obligated or bored, she will shut down. Be aware of how vulnerable she may feel lying there with her legs spread, play with yourself and tell her how hot she makes you and how good she tastes. I promise it will pay off - that little extra effort can turn a self-conscious woman into the lusty, naughty woman you’ve always wanted.
Sometimes, It’s Not Going to Happen
...And that’s okay. Seriously. Step away from the vagina. Please don’t keep at it for another 30 minutes in an effort to prove your manhood. Move on and get stuck into something else.
Do you have any go-to moves when going down on your lady? Let us know in the comments below.
