3:54 pm Monday, 12th February, 2018
The swinging lifestyle is nothing new. The phenomenon of swinging is said to have arisen from the freer attitudes to sex after the sexual revolution of the 1960s.
The only difference now is that people have started talking about it more openly and with a wider range of safe sex practices, it has become less risky and more risque.
If you and your playmate would like to experiment with this sexual adventure, we are here to help you get into the swing of Valentine's Day with this guide to successful swinging in a relationship.
Figure Out Why You Want To Swing.
The first step is to open up about your swinging thoughts with your partner. When a couple decides to get into this lifestyle, both partners should first openly communicate their feelings to each other to create a comfortable atmosphere. There can be many reasons for taking up a swinging lifestyle. You both might want to experience the pleasure of a shared sexual relationship or simply want to spice up your intimate life with new adventures. But if you’re looking for ways to mend the flaws in your relationship, you’ll be left disappointed. The swinging lifestyle is only for healthy couples looking for joint pleasure.
How You Want To Swing.
There are plenty of options to explore swinging lifestyle. You can begin with locally organized swinger parties or jump to lavish swinger cruises. The choice is totally yours. It would depend on your budget, preferences, and the degree of excitement you’re looking for.
You can choose to hook up with opposite, as well as the same sex people. The chances are you may be looking forward to playing with a few of your fantasies that you may have never explored before.
Set Some Ground Rules.
If you’re new to this lifestyle, it is important to set some rules for each other before indulging. For example, if you are both going to a swinging party and either one of you wants to leave early, it should be perfectly fine (or not) for the other person to stay behind. Other rules may include factors related to being in the same room or being comfortable seeing your partner being intimate with the same sex. Make sure you talk about all these things up front.
Work On Building Up Your Confidence.
If you want to take part in this lavish lifestyle, you should start working on your persona. People only like to pick or approach others who exhibit a great personality and confident look. Whether you’re looking for a swinging partner online or at a club, make sure you display the best of your persona to attract the most people. Lots of swinging couples use fake names as an identity, and it is perfectly acceptable in the swinging world.
Plan To Meet Before Hooking Up.
After you’ve found the couples or individuals matching your criteria, you can talk to them on the phone or simply arrange a meeting. It is ideal to meet the potential swinger couples the first time first, so you can see whether they look or talk the same as they did online. If you don’t feel a connection, simply move on.
Just Have Fun
If you and your partner wish to be on the hit list of swinger couples, you will need to make sure that you understand your desires and let others do the same. Do not keep any expectations from this lifestyle, and keep yourself open and available at all times to make the most of your swinging lifestyle.
Let us know in the comments below if the swinging lifestyle is one you would like to explore? Or if you are part of the lifestyle do you have any tips for anyone wanting to venture into swinging
