9:24 am Thursday, 7th September, 2017
What exactly is a Unicorn? Much like the elusive mythical creature, a Unicorn to swingers is the hard to find single female who appears to fulfill a couple’s erotic fantasy, and then disappears, never to be seen or heard from again.
To celebrate National Swap Ideas Day we have put together this hot guide on everything you need to know about adorning your horn in the swinging community.
Know what you want
What is your swing fantasy? (MF, MM, FF, MFM, FMF). Be honest about your boundaries, don't just accept the first invitation without getting to know the couple’s needs as well as your own. As a single woman, you get to be pretty selective about who you play with.
What is the role of a unicorn?
Most swingers are couples; married, dating, partners formed by similar sexual proclivity. Couples seek out Unicorns for many reasons, most commonly for threesomes, but also to venture into the polyamorous scene or as a step towards opening their relationship. Ideally, the Unicorn will be bisexual, not looking for romantic attachment, and available at the couple’s discretion. The important thing for the couple is that the Unicorn poses no threat to the relationship.
You don’t have to be a model
Single females are highly desirable in most of the swinger communities. The assumption would be that the younger and more attractive you are the more attention you will receive but that is not the case. As long as you make an effort with your appearance, have a strong, sexy confidence, and you are comfortable in your own skin, you are going to be in high demand.
Do it for yourself
Joining a couple as a Unicorn is an exhilarating experience that allows you the flexibility, freedom, and sexual satisfaction without the traditional commitments of a ‘normal’ relationship. It also gives you the chance to explore your own sexuality with the sex you may be more attracted to.
Finding a couple
Use the site to find and interact with couples. Go to parties, clubs, get to know couples. You will meet like-minded people at these venues, and couples that you play with will also introduce you to other couples they know and trust.
You will need the ability to interpret emotions
Since you’ll likely be dealing with a couple, you need to pay attention to each of their needs simultaneously. You need to be intuitive enough to pick up on facial expressions, body language, tone and even eye movement that might signal discomfort, concern or hesitation.
Don't force it
It is best to find couples that are actively looking to explore the lifestyle. Trying to find someone outside the lifestyle and trying to convince them to join you could cause complications to the couple's relationship.
With an extra set of hands, mouth, and entryways, the life of the Unicorn can be incredible. Have you ever been a Unicorn or is it something you would love to experience? Let us know in the comments below.
