2:36 pm Tuesday, 27th June, 2017
Whether it’s a prelude to penetration or an orgasmic act all of its own, giving a moan-worthy handjob is an incredibly sexy skill to have in the sack.
To celebrate National Handshake Day we have 10 handjob tips to literally drive him nuts.
HandJob Foreplay
Rather than just grabbing his penis and giving him a good tug as fast as you can, you'll find that it's way hotter to build up to it. Start by kissing him as you normally would, move your hand slowly down his body. As you touch his thighs, brush against his cock and he won’t be able to control the throbbing in his pants.
The Wetter The Better
Lube is a game-changer. You want your hand to slide over his penis, not feel like you're using a sheet of sandpaper. Lube will make him feel more comfortable, and will give you a wider range of motions. So make it wet, just like the real thing.
Now Grab That Thing
What's the right amount of grip? It really depends on the guy, but in most cases, they want you to grab it like you mean it. It's a cock, not flower, you're not going to hurt him. Grip his the penis firmly in your hand, and increase the pressure of your grip as you move your fist up and down his shaft. Ask him to let you know when it starts to feel uncomfortable. You’ll probably be surprised by just how tightly you can squeeze.
Talk Dirty
Compliment his manhood, talk about how impressive, big, or nice it is; ask him if he's enjoying himself, "you like that baby?" He'll also love it if you take charge and tell him when to cum.
Double The Pleasure
No matter how small or big your man is in the penis-size department, every guy wants to believe he’s the latter, and you can help him out in this respect by using both hands while jerking his joystick. With both hands working in precision, first one hand scaling down his shaft followed directly by the other. Make a gentle twisting motion on the way down, and his head will spin.
Get The Balls Involved…
Another orgasmic way to get both hands involved is to stimulate his testicles. A lot of women don’t realise just how pleasurable this is for most men. You want to be much more delicate with his family jewels than you are with his shaft, but even the lightest touch can create a lot of stimulation. Try cupping both balls in one of your hands and lightly squeezing them together.
…And The Backdoor.
A little anal action can take a handjob from good to mind-blowing. If you want to test your limits down there, slowly work your way down toward that area. Start by running your finger from his balls and down to his perineum - the skin between his balls and his anus. If he likes it go further with a little bit of lube on your finger, and gently press it against his anus.
Consistency Is Key
If you want things to reach their climax (pun intended), speeding things up and keeping it consistent does the job. A lot of women try to get too fancy with handjobs, almost like they’re trying to show off every possible stroke that they can think of. Stroking upward and downward with the vigor in which you like to be fingered is a good start. But when he’s about to come, this is when you can get your Cocktail shaker on and stroke that thing fast, he’ll shoot twice as hard.
Learn From The Master
Watching him masturbate can be incredibly hot so the best way for you to learn how to please him with your hand is to ask him to give you a hands-on demo of how he likes to do it, then follow his lead.
Put On A Show
As you're doing your thing on his cock, occasionally reach down and touch yourself with your other hand. You're handjob skills might not be as sharp if you're otherwise distracted, but the show you're giving him will be worth it. Seeing you masturbate will majorly turn your dude on and you'll be making yourself feel great. It's a win-win.
One of the best qualities of getting frisky between the sheets is enthusiasm so have fun with it, he won’t be able to contain his excitement.
Is a handjob part of your getting down and dirty routine or is it something you don’t tend to think about? Let us know in the comments below.
