1:30 pm Thursday, 8th October, 2015
Want to enjoy a good game of ‘handball’, but not sure how to get started? Then fear not, we are on hand with our comprehensive guide to get you started with your fisting fun! Whether you want to fly solo, or enjoy some shared pleasure, you will find everything you need to know, plus some helpful fisting tips to stay healthy.
Why not try fisting with your playmate to experience a level of intimacy and trust that only adds to your whole experience. Open up to a world of intense and euphoric pleasure; whether the fister, the fistee, or both, you are in for a real treat!
SAFETY FIRST
DO
- Trim your fingernails
- Wear a latex glove to avoid infections
- Use PLENTY of lubricant
- Douche or use an enema 3-4 hours before your fun, and then a quick, gentle douche right before playtime
- Let your fist be pulled in naturally (when past the knuckles)
- Experiment with different movements, but listen to your partner (or your own body if you are alone)
DON’T
- Use oil based lubricant if you choose to wear a latex glove
- Try to fit your whole hand in at once
- Skip the warm-up
- Force the fist in if you are having trouble getting past the knuckles
- Rush - all good things come with time
WARMING UP
So, you’ve decided to give in to you fisting fascination, but where do you begin? Well, make sure you take a trip to the bathroom and empty your bowels and bladder before you start! It is also a good idea to flush your body with a douche for additional cleanliness. The it’s time to get that body warmed up.
- Begin with a non-penetrative genital or anal stimulation to get that blood pumping in the pelvic area.
- Apply fisting lubricant in and around the anus or vagina.
- Insert two fingers into the anus or vagina in a v shaped, and massage internally to relax those muscles.
- Try warming up with anal stretching toys, including graduating and inflatable sex toys.
- When fully relaxed, you can begin to think about moving to the next level.
GETTING STARTED
So, you’re feeling HOT and are ready for the next phase of your fun? Well, once you’ve completed the warm up and you are (both) feeling relaxed, you can move on. It is essential that you apply plenty of additional lubricant to the anus or vagina, and the hand, to ensure maximum pleasure with minimal discomfort. Now follow this next part step by step on get that fisting cherry popped…
- Lay down a sheet to catch an excess lubricant
- Get into a comfortable position where you feel relaxed.
- Each finger should be inserted one by one to form a ‘silent duck’. The fingers are positioned tightly together and straight, the thumb folder over the palm.
- Move the fist in a little deeper
- At this point if there is any severe pain, it is time to stop!
- After the knuckles (the widest part of the hand) enter into the anal or vaginal cavity, the rest of the hand will naturally pull in and the fist will curl.
- Wow! Take some time to (both) get used to the sensation.
Experimentation time! Try rotating to see how various positions feel, whilst stimulating other parts of the body including the genitals. Flexing the fingers and the thumb is also a favourite. However, no movement may be required at all as the sensation alone can be extremely orgasmic. A first time fistee should experiment and control their own sensations by clenching the muscles lightly around the fist.
For easy removal, return your hand to the ‘silent duck’ stance and it will glide out with ease.
Remember, fisting is about the journey and not the destination! Make sure, above all, you are comfortable and you enjoy the ride.
