10:28 am Wednesday, 12th August, 2015
Lying on your back is the most surefire way to get off by oral sex, say most experts. But if you fancy exploring, test out some of these saucier oral sex positions.
1. The Classic
The classic oral sex position for women receiving cunnilingus is a classic for a reason. One of the reasons oral sex is so pleasurable is the opportunity to lie back, relax and receive pleasure. Getting comfortable in bed and allowing your lover to lavish you with pleasure is a delicious and simple oral sex position.
You can experiment with a few modifications to make this classic oral sex position even more pleasurable.
Uncover! Don’t make your lover suffocate under the sheets while going down on you. Throw off the covers and allow your lover to breathe freely while pleasuring you. The bonus? You get to feast your eyes on your hot lover in between your thighs. Make it even more intimate by making eye contact as your lover continues to pleasure you!
Try placing a pillow under your hips to elevate your pelvis, giving your lover a bit more breathing room. Experiment with two or three pillows to gain more height. This position is also ideal for adding in fingering techniques to oral sex, a sure fire way to maximise your orgasmic potential and hit all your pleasure zones at once!
Plant your feet on the mattress, allowing you to push off your feet and move your hips. This can be your first step in becoming a more active receiver during oral sex. By shifting your hips a little up and down, or to the right and left, you can help your lover’s tongue find your most sensitive spots. Once you gain more confidence and are ready to go wild, try moving your hips in circles and undulating waves to maximise your pleasure!
2. Queening
If you want to take control of your pleasure and give your lover an overwhelming experience, try the Queening oral sex position. Like a true queen, you take your throne—by sitting on your lover’s face! Get your lover comfortable lying down in bed and then kneel over them, presenting your most intimate parts for them to pleasure. You can kneel up or down in order to control how much they can reach you, move your hips for your own pleasure and even experiment with engulfing their face in your flesh for short intense bursts.
Don’t be shy about suggesting this position; many guys fantasise about this experience and think it’s a total turn-on. Queening is truly an empowering experience, so if you’re ready to claim your erotic power and beauty, assume the throne!
3. Doggy Style
Ready to get primal? Get on all fours and allow him to stimulate you while you move and rock your hips. He can either be totally behind you, if you are comfortable with his face so close to all your parts, or he can lie down and use his mouth around your clitoris. Enhance the primal experience of this position by making lots of noise, expressing your pleasure with moans, groans and even growls!
4. Recline And Receive
If you have a comfortable recliner or reading chair, try putting a pillow on the floor in front of you, scooting to the edge of the chair and inviting your partner to kneel in front of you. This can also work on the edge of a bed. Inviting your lover to kneel in front of you and perform oral sex is a delicious way to allow them to worship your lovely body.
And gentlemen, if you are reading this - ask any woman how she feels about receiving oral and she’ll probably tell you it feels good—but you should never settle for “good” when you could make her feel amazing. Would you go to a football game and only stay until half time? Would you fill up a pint of beer only mid-way? Of course not. So the same rule applies to going down on a woman: never half-ass it.
