4:32 pm Wednesday, 26th March, 2014
Does it sometimes feel a bit like Groundhog Day when it comes to your bedroom antics? Minimal foreplay, same positions, same predictable order, you know what’s coming. Here’s a few little things that you can try that take bare minimum effort, yet can make a world of difference.
Mini But Mighty
Invest in a mini vibrator, these cost next to nothing and can up the intensity of sensations during or prior to sex. Use it to aide your hands and tongue during foreplay or in the midst of intercourse, placing it around your erogenous areas will stimulate your nerve endings even more so and help give you both explosive orgasms.
Warm Things Up
Warming lube gently heats up your bits using ingredients that react with your skin. This extra heat will in turn mean extra blood-flow to your nerve endings and voila, a fantastically euphoric orgasm that will leave you both speechless but with a smile on your faces.
Don’t Worry
One of the biggest contributors to five star sex is confidence. Usually you can top this up with something as simple as some new underwear or a lovely compliment. Much of the intensity of sex is psychological, so a positive mindset will make the difference between you thoroughly enjoying your sex session and feeling so uncomfortable you can’t focus your mind on what’s going on.
Talk It Through
Communication between one another is important, you should be able to feel like you can comfortably disclose exactly what gets you going and them vice versa. Don’t worry about offending them and likewise, don’t take it the wrong way if they tell you they’d like you to do something a bit differently. See it as constructive criticism to getting your sex life to a point where it is fully satisfying and you’re both getting the most out of it.
You don’t need rubber suits and fluffy handcuffs to achieve a stupendous sex life (although they can help should you be into that sort of thing)! It’s as simple as making a few little minor adjustments that will make a huge difference.