10:58 am Friday, 14th February, 2014
So many people love the feeling of liberation and power that temporarily forgetting themselves to adopt a domineering character which has complete sexual control of their submissive counterpart. Known by multiple names including Dominatrix or Mistress for women and Dominator or Master for male doms, these kinky bosses know what they want, what they want you to do and how to make you do it. For someone who feels passionately with regards to the sexual field of BDSM, the prospect of making a living out of it will appeal massively. So guess what? This is a real career field with a growing number of ‘schools’ teaching worthy students all there is to know about this fine art.
Anyone Can Do It
The reference for a professional dom is ‘pro-domme’ or ‘pro-dom’ for females and males respectively. Generally speaking, the demand for women is much higher in comparison to men when it comes to the dominating market, however those males that prove themselves good at what they do and work hard enough will reap just as many benefits and rewards from the job as their lady peers.
It’s Not Prostitution
Despite the link between BDSM and sex, generally speaking pro-dommes will not usually offer intercourse. The thrills that a client is paying for are more to do with the sexual gratitude that they get from being told what to do, abused, humiliated etc. It’s not even about sexual attraction, in fact according to many Mistresses/Masters a sub should barely look at them, they are a slave and so are not worthy. Should a client be wanting sex they’ve booked the wrong type of service.
Learn The Ropes
So, should you enroll up to a class that teaches this relatively new and expanding line of work, what will you learn? Well, from everything to improving your confidence so that you can handle yourself and any type of client that comes your way, to using accessories on your slaves to ensure their optimum satisfaction. Usually an academy will also offer a dungeon and subjects for your one-on-one training with an established dom.
Should you be scouring the job ads daily in desperation for a fresh start on how you make your living, take the time to consider this as a career change. Well paid, working for yourself and doing something you enjoy. What are you waiting for?
