4:37 pm Wednesday, 27th November, 2013
Such a taboo subject, if you’re curious though and want to attempt it you will need to be very much prepared. Most of what’s involved with anal is preparation and communication, so, a few things you’re gonna need to take into consideration.
Ouch!
Lubrication is obviously extremely important, the anal sphincter was not made for objects entering it so as much help to make it easier as possible is of utmost importance to avoid
injury to such a sensitive area. Unlike the vaginal walls which were made for such friction, the anus tissue does not so easily repair and afflictions to this area can be a long time healing and extremely painful, so you need to get it right from the start.
Relax
To loosen up your partner, make sure the room is well heated so that the muscles are as loosened as possible and you’re in a calm and peaceful environment. Chances are they wont be able to relax enough to allow you entry should they be worried about someone walking in or should there’s a lot of noise pollution going on around you. Perhaps burn some incense, light a few candles, play some soothing music and give them a thorough massage to chill them out prior to your attempt.
Gently Does It
Remember to keep a good rapport with your partner all the way throughout as if they’re uncomfortable or in pain you should be ready to stop. They should also assume most of the control, as gentle as you may think you’re being it may still be too much for them. Let them guide you and they will tell you when so
Reaching the point of full anal sex can be a lengthy process as you must go at your partner’s pace, be it it starting with inserting a small object such as your finger for a couple of times a week to get them used to the sensation or full penetration on the first try. Everyone is different and you must have patience with your partner and prioritise their well being over your own wants, as much as it may be something you would like to fulfill. After all good things come to those who wait.
