12:46 pm Monday, 18th November, 2013
Does your sex life feel a bit like groundhog day? You’ve been there and done it numerous times before and you’re suffering from deja vu at the mere mention of your bedroom.
There’s lots of little ways to break up routine and mix things up a bit.
Spontaneity
Notice how the random, spur of the moment nights out are the best nights out? Well it’s the same with the nights in, or should we say mornings, afternoons, twilight hours? Because that is exactly it, sex is best when it’s unplanned and not so scheduled. So this may mean getting jiggy at some unearthly hour in the morning before work or maybe a quickie during your lunch break but if it spices up your sex life it’s well worth the extra effort.
Foreplay
It’s been cited over and over, drummed into peoples’ heads and shouted to the rafters..use foreplay! You may be thinking: “here we go, tell me something I haven’t heard”, but the importance of foreplay cannot be understated as it does create a climax to sex. Go head first into intercourse when you’re not worked up enough and it will quickly be an anti-climax rather than the hot, mind blowing romp you would wish it was. They say sex is like pizza, there’s no such thing as bad pizza, some even like it cold, but for most people you’ve gotta warm it up first!
Toys
Theres no shame in using a little assistance to help you on your way, even if that help is in the form of a vibrating piece of latex, battery operated equipment with a smiley little face on the end that loves making you happy back. Sex toys are growing in popularity, not just with single ladies that live on their own with a massive inclination for stilettos, but also with couples who want to put the pedal to the metal and accelerate their bedroom activity a little bit. If the common vibrator intimidates you a bit, there is toys of all shapes and sizes out there for all levels of needs and fantasies.
Food
A good idea to make your sex sessions a little tastier is to bring some grub into the bedroom. The infamous whipped cream and strawberries is always a winner or there’s a rainbow of different flavoured body paints you can buy these days. If people have an issue with giving oral sex due to their partner’s natural smells and tastes, they have no excuse if there’s something yummy to spread handy.
So rev up your loving with one or maybe even all this tips! You’ve got nothing to lose, apart from a bit of sleep that is!
