Wife swapping rules

The lifestyle known as swinging or wife swap has a very strong etiquette that swinging couples tend to follow and single swingers like to ignore.


Wife swapping was traditionally an adult activity that only couples took part in. As time went on single swingers also started to enjoy the wife swap lifestyle. While most couples respect the swinging rules that goes with this activity many singles, especially males, tend to bend the rules.

Following the wife swapping etiquette is just as important as finding the right person for swinging. Many single males are so desperate to get free sex or to get invited to wife swap parties that they often turn to inappropriate behavior. This is the main reason why most swinging couples prefer not to come to open single male nights at wife swapping clubs.
There is no reason why single men wanting to follow the lifestyle can’t follow basic swinging etiquette. The rules are simple and we are going to give you a breakdown of the basic behavior that is expected of everyone at a swingers party or wife swap club.

The first rule is simple choose the right partner to accompany you to a swingers party. If you take somebody with you that don’t know anything about the wife swapping community then things can get awkward for everyone. If you are single and need a partner to take along then use our personal ads or advanced search feature to hook up with someone rather than just take a ticket along. (A ticket is someone who just uses you to get into the swingers party and then drops you at the entrance). You and your partner are expected to be together at the swingers party and to also leave the party together.

The second rule – ‘Don’t be Rude’ is also common knowledge but most single males forget about it when their libido’s start taking over. Not everybody at a wife swap evening is going to have sex with you. Don’t take it personally when they say no, just move on and never ask them why they don’t want to swing with you as the answer might hurt you even more.
If somebody comes on to you and you are not interested a polite no thank you will do the job. If the person keeps bothering you then go straight to the hostess.

The third rule involves personal hygiene and safe sex. If you take care of the way you look and smell then other adults will naturally ask you to swing with them. With swinging couples the women usually takes care of bringing essential things like deodorant, condoms and wet wipes to the wife swap evening. So it is single males responsibility to bring enough condoms and a clean set of clothes to a swingers party.

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