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Private Adult Events

8:12 am Thursday, 4th December, 2008



Forget about starting a cooking or a book club. Why not start your very own private swingers club or host your own private swinging party? Read on to find out exactly how to do this.


Starting your own private swingers club or hosting a wife-swapping party is a lot of fun and a very satisfying “hobby” – if I’m allowed to call it that.
When you attend someone else’s swapping party or club, you have to fall in with what the host likes. If you host your own adult evening then you can call the shots and decide if you want a discreet partner swapping club that involves soft swapping and flirtatious socializing or an adult party that is more of an orgy with naked bodies performing group sex everywhere. You can even decide what type of adults you want to invite. Maybe this will be strictly gay or only for couple, the bottom line is you get to decide.

When you are the host of a private swingers club or even a once-of-adult evening then most of the responsibility lies with you. You have to plan and execute everything from sending out the invites, to making the newbies feel comfortable. If someone steps out of line and harasses your guests then you have to handle the situation and either have a firm word with the person or ask them to leave.

Swingers love to unwind at a private swingers party with some alcohol so make sure that you tell your guests to BYOB (bring your own booze) or to get a drinks sponsor. Alternatively you can ask for a cover charge and use that money to provide finger food and drinks. It’s also your responsibility to make sure that the swingers etiquette is followed at your club and that people only drink what they bring.

Health and hygiene is very important and you should have a shower facility at your private swingers club that swingers can use before they go home. Also have a stack of condoms available that everyone can use for safe sex. Breath mints, deodorant and tissues can also come in handy. Not everyone feels comfortable with swinging in the group room. So make sure that you have a few bedrooms available for private swinging.

Now that you know the basic rules and steps to host a private swingers party or start your own private swingers club we encourage you to get started right away and remember to have fun!




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