7:59 am Thursday, 4th December, 2008
Most adults are looking for someone very specific to swing with and by advertising your goods on an adult personal ad you will attract the right people. Read our handy tips on how to place your personal ad.
It’s not always easy to approach people and meet new couples or singles in real life situations like at a swingers party or at a swingers club. When you’re a shy person by nature it’s even more difficult and that’s why swinger personals come in very handy.
Follow our handy tips on swinger personals:
- Always be honest: Lying on an adult ad is not going to get you any
where and it will in fact put people off. In the end you will always get
caught out as a male in the UK soon realised when he bragged about his
humongous 14 inch penis, only to be embarrassed and caught out when
woman that met him posted the truth on an adult forum.
So what if you are not perfect, instead of concentrating on your faults and
lying to make yourself sound better why not focus on your assets.
By pimping something about yourself that you like, be it your mysterious
eyes or your manly shoulders, you will sound just as exciting to other
adults.
- Protect your privacy: Cyber stalkers are a reality that’s why it is very
important never to mention your real name, address or contact details
in ads. Create your own swingers name and use the internal mail and not
your work email address to interact. If you decide to meet your contact
do so in a public place before you go somewhere private and always tell a
friend where you are going.
- First impressions last: Placing a swinger personal ad filled with
grammatical and spelling errors are just as good as not placing an ad at
all. Also make sure that the tone of your personal ad is not offensive to
anyone. You really don’t want to come across as a male chauvinistic pig or
a feminist bitch.
- Be specific: Saying that you just want to meet anyone for a good time is
not going to get you swinging anytime soon. If you’re a couple looking for
a young female in your 20’s to join you then say so.
- At the same time be open minded: A female in her 30’s can be as much
fun and by being more open minded you won’t risk missing out on a good
thing.
- Stand out from the crowd, be creative: There are thousands of personal
adult ads, all saying the same thing. If you want to
stand out from the masses then you’ll need to use your creative juices.
Why not write a short poem or limerick to describe what you are looking
for. If you’re posting a photo of yourself then think about what you are
wearing and about the background to make it more interesting.
- Link to your blog: By linking to your very own swingers blog your potential
contacts will get to read more about your fantasies and your experiences.
The same rule applies for your blog as for your ad, always be honest and
never give out any personal details.
- See what’s out there: Visit other swinger personals regularly to get
inspiration for your ad and to make new contacts.
- Don’t be too serious: you are here to have fun and so what if the first 20
adults replying to your personal ad are not your thing. There will be many
more and maybe your impression of someone will change once you meet
them.
Now that you know exactly how to place your very own swingers personal, we’re not going to waste any more of your time as there are many new adult contacts waiting to meet you in the cyber world.
