Lesbian contacts for every woman’s desire

There are a variety of lesbian contacts that you’re bound to meet on lesbian chat - from sexy doily dyke and chapstick lesbian to transwomen and drag kings.


The Lesbian community might not have such a huge impact on popular culture as the gay community, but it’s definitely just as interesting and even more complex with a variety of lesbians fighting for their place in the spotlight. Sexual activity between women is as diverse as sex between heterosexuals or gay men.

A lesbian or dyke, as some people call them, refers to a woman who is romantically and sexually attracted only to other woman. There are women in same-sex relationships that don’t identify as lesbian, but as bisexual, queer or another label. In the last century more straight women have become bisexual and this has contributed that lesbian dating world- wide is on the increase.

As I mentioned before the lesbian community might not be as mainstream as the gay society but since the 80’s lesbians have been more visible in mainstream culture i.e. movies, music videos, books and television. Take TV shows like ‘the L-word’; lesbian celebrities like Ellen DeGeneres, Portia de Rossi, Samantha Ronson & Lindsay Lohan and movies like Finding Tatu all of these that made lesbianism even more popular.

You can’t stereotype a lesbian and say everyone look and act in a similar fashion. So where do you start if you have to categorize different lesbians. Below we show you the broader lesbian groups with a short description of them:

Butch: Butch lesbians tend to denote masculine habits like having short hair; dressing in clothing that was designed for men, having masculine mannerisms and behaviours. They are widely described as a dyke or a bulldyke. You will hear a lot a lot about bulldykes in prison.

A soft butch: is a woman who exhibits some stereotypical butch lesbian traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians. Soft butches or chapstick lesbians as they are also know in lesbian chat, generally appear androgynous, rather than adhering to strictly feminine or masculine norms. Soft butch is an acceptable in-between state that is more acceptable amongst lesbian dating in the UK than dykes who appear too feminine or too masculine.

A lipstick lesbian: is usually a gorgeous woman who takes care of herself and who is more attracted to other feminine women, than a lesbian who is attracted to more masculine women. These women like wearing make-up, dresses or skits and ofcourse they love shopping. One of the best examples of a lipstick lesbian or doily dyke in the lesbian community is the beautiful actress Anne Heche.

Drag kings: are female-bodied or -identified performance artists who dress in masculine drag and personify male gender stereotypes such as Elvis Presley, James Dean, Charlie Chaplin or Tim McGraw, as part of their performance. They are thus exaggeratedly macho male characters or male celebrities and their routine could include dancing, singing or lip-syncing.

A faux queen: is a drag queen trapped in a woman’s body. They are biologically female and thus known as a bio queen or even a biologically-challenged drag queen or a "female female impersonator. They also play with traditional gender roles and gender norms to educate and entertain. It is really fun to chat with faux queens on lesbian chat as they have the most unusual opinions and they have the best gossip about other lesbian contacts.

Tomboy: is an adult woman who typically wears masculine-orientated clothes. They also like games and physical activities that are typically considered to be the domain of boys. Things like fishing, shooting and drag racing will be their fancy. Tomboys may appear butch but they are not necessarily lesbians.

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