outdoor fun and public sex do’s and don’ts

Get the inside into the local outdoor fun scene by reading our tips for amateur doggers and adults who’s new to the public sex scene.


Like everything else in life outdoor fun also has a specific etiquette that mature outdoor fun adults follow. Just because adults are participating in public sex does not mean that they can go wild and not adhere to a certain social behavior. This article will outline the basic do’s and don’ts expected of a dogger and serve as a guide to newbies of the outdoor fun scene, providing helpful hints that will make them comfortable in no time.


outdoor fun usually takes place in the open air, countryside, carparks or even picnic spots. Because outdoor fun spots are sometimes public places where families like to hang out during the day, there are very strict rules that accompanies this lifestyle. One of them is to respect the environment and your neighbor at all times. Don’t litter, clean up after yourself and don’t do anything reckless inside or outside of your car. This behavior also counts for voyeurs and single men who like to watch other couples having sex in public places. Never block your fellow spectators view by standing in front of them or blocking them with your car.

It’s best to prepare yourself before going to a outdoor fun spot. Things that come in handy are wet wipes, deodorant, tissues, mouth wash, KY jelly, disposable gloves, packets of condoms (always share with other doggers) and a blanket or warm jacket.
Being hygienic, looking clean and smelling nice is also very helpful as other couples won’t invite you to join in on the action if you don’t come across as clean.

Less is more and when it comes to dressing up or in this case down, for public sex. If you are a female you can save time by wearing a short skirt with no underwear and a top with a zip. If you are going to be frolicking around outside your car then wear comfortable shoes or boots and don’t try high heels or even consider going barefoot. (You don’t want to be stepping in any thorns). Dressing appropriately will not only make you feel comfortable but also increase the fun for everyone.

Rather be safe than sorry. Remember this golden rule when you even think about not using a condom. Put your personal belongings like your wallet and cell phone away in the glove box; don’t just leave it lying around on the car seat. Be careful not to take security to your head and lock yourself out of your car. This happened to a couple who found themselves stalkers at a popular picnic spot. It took two other voyagers to help them break their car window.

At a dinner party you don’t insult your host or other guests and the same rule applies for doggers. When you arrive at a outdoor fun area you need to give clear signals to other adults if you want them to watch or join in on the fun. Voyagers also can’t just sneak up on couples as they might just be normal people looking for fresh air. It is also rude for them to yell at a couple to give them some action. It is best for voyagers and couples wanting to have public sex to read the signs to see if they are welcome.

Flashing headlights or leaving the inside light on a car is a good indication that voyagers are welcome. Even better is a rolled down window or open car door inviting everyone to get closer and maybe even experience some of the action. Remember that yes means yes and no means no. outdoor fun couples shouldn’t be afraid to tell single men to back off if they start to feel uncomfortable.

The most important rule about outdoor fun is to have fun! Know your limits, try new things if you feel like it, respect others and end the evening with a bang and then go home. Who knows maybe these tips inspired you to be part of the main act instead of just watching from the sidelines.

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