undefinedI think, especially with people who've been married a long time, fantasy plays a larger part in the sexual relationship, and I'm absolutely convinced that many married women love to imagine all sorts of things, but would never even be unfaithful to their husbands, in real life.
We've been married nearly eighteen years now, and are well into the fantasy stage. Needless to say, my mind usually dreams up situations involving my wife with other men, something that turns me on more and more as the years go by. She goes along with this happily enough, in our own bed, but it all stops at the bedroom door.
Her perspective
I am a 45 year old married professional woman living in Mumbai, India. I
work in an MNC with my husband, who is a fairly successful
businessman. We have been married for 18 years and you can
say we are as happy as an average married couple. We have
our ups and downs, good days and bad days, so to the words I am
a typical Indian woman taking take of her husband and household. However, the truth is far from that. I have always been a fun loving personality. I was and still am outgoing, not the shy types, and always enjoyed interacting
with people. Social events like parties are always a pleasure for me. There is no substitute for good company.
You only live once and you shouldn't let the best in life pass you by.
However I always had a moral compass based on my belief in
God and my upbringing, culture and traditions. Which is why,
even though I am considered beautiful by those who know me,
I never had any affairs during my single days.
For those who are interested, I am 5'9 (tall by Indian standards for a
woman), fair, long straight black hair, slim yet curvy in
the right places. I believed in the goodness of people and
now I know that was my own naivety and perhaps the reason of
the change in my life.
During my single days, one of closest
friends was Neha.
She and I were always inseparable.
We shared a similar
zest for life and while I was not the shy types, Neha was even more
outgoing than me. Social events, parties, shipping, or
traveling, we always did everything together. As fate would
have it, we also got engaged around the same time. I was
engaged around the same time Arun came into Neha's
life.
Both of our
marriages were arranged by the family as per the usual
custom in India. Due to family timings, Neha got married four
months before I did. After marriage, when she and I would
hang out, she would talk to be about her married life and of
course sex was discussed. Apparently Arun was very good, and
Neha was completely
satisfied in that department.
He has opened a new
door for her and Neha being outgoing had
easily acclimated herself to it. We didn't go into too
much detail, but there was enough teasing and chiding form
both of us to make me really look forward to my wedding
night.
I'm 60 years old, living in the Mumbai region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 30 and 59.
