Everyone has a fantasy. Everyone gets aroused. The fact is lust surrounds most of us. Why not come out of the shyness all will be happy. ..We tend to be reserve in our approach. Mutual pleasure exchanges may give some excitement and a change. A boy friend and a girl, when dating put up their best front. When they marry, they are different. Similarly with a regular partner fantasy , positions of sex may be difficult. But with others it may not be so. We may explore it all