In my last relationship I spent on quite a lot of toys and lingerie for my loved one. She would laugh and tell me to spend money on something else or say that my toy or clothing chest was enough. I loved buying the roleplay costumes for her and we both had fun.
Talking to other people about sex toys, some were in favour, others felt they didn't need them to enhance their lives as they were already good.
When the relationship ended, I binned nearly everything. There was something not quite right about secondhand lingerie. I felt wrong about using those toys with someone else. Yes, I was hygienic, yes the toys were cleaned after use...still I couldn't bring myself to retain them for future use as it somehow felt like a betrayal of that good time. Crazy, huh? That's why the expensive vibes and less expensive clothes were dumped in the bin. A new start. What I couldn't bring myself to get rid of were my spanking implements. I suppose they're less intimate and I wonder if or when they will next be put to use .Two of my toys have yet to be flexed by me. I hope that I find my Spankable Cinderella- the rare lady who even though submissive, thrills to her power that by trusting me, she takes us both to bliss. Will I find the lady whose bottom will ring under my hand...I live in hope. 😉
