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Does Playing Hard To Get Work For You?

2:18 pm Monday, 24th February, 2020



Hey Everyone,

The topic of playing too hard to get is a much-debated one, statistic and reports claim to show no difference need for it, but we have all been madly infatuated with someone at some point who piqued our interest because we couldn’t have them – from book crushes to movie stars to the cute neighbour next door the unobtainable person always seems that much sexier.

Have you ever successfully played hard to get? What worked for you and what would you recommend we avoid? 

Leave your stories of sexual prowess or missteps in the comments below.



Comments
11:53 am Tuesday, 25th February, 2020

Its a fantastic site 

12:46 pm Tuesday, 25th February, 2020

Yes

2:58 pm Tuesday, 25th February, 2020

Very good 

3:31 pm Tuesday, 25th February, 2020

Like 

4:33 pm Tuesday, 25th February, 2020

Interesting, I like it.

4:55 pm Tuesday, 25th February, 2020

🍷👙

4:43 am Wednesday, 26th February, 2020

Interessting

1:40 pm Tuesday, 3rd March, 2020

🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽

2:42 pm Tuesday, 3rd March, 2020

Yeah💏👍💤

6:21 pm Tuesday, 3rd March, 2020

I remember i had a real bad crush on this and I had fantasys of alll kinds of kinky yummy things we would do it was so bad my knees would go weak my day finally happened and when it was all thought it would be and more and then his wife showed up and  to my surprise she joined it was AMAZING

8:24 pm Tuesday, 3rd March, 2020

Really Super always God bless you All happy life journey for all

11:38 pm Tuesday, 3rd March, 2020

🤞💕💕💞

6:47 am Wednesday, 4th March, 2020

I couldn't play this any easier lol people if there is anyone real please be honest 

7:25 am Wednesday, 4th March, 2020

very nice i like it

6:03 pm Wednesday, 4th March, 2020

Sorry I am not much help, I have been fairly easy to get

6:14 pm Wednesday, 4th March, 2020

Never played hard to get. 

3:10 pm Thursday, 5th March, 2020

Playing hard to get enjoy the ride means justify at the end 📸

11:00 pm Saturday, 7th March, 2020

If you been noughty go to your room if you wanna be come  to mine 

11:03 pm Sunday, 8th March, 2020

Do play so hard  ,its means slow drive long life

7:39 pm Monday, 9th March, 2020

You have to qualify a certain level of acceptance so play hard to get but also be hard to get if they don't qualify ok

7:46 pm Monday, 9th March, 2020

No hair is a good thing, no one likes spiting or pulling hair out of there mouth, that goes both ways male and female

12:26 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I’m hard to get enough of

12:35 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Ok

12:38 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I'm just hard.

12:41 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Its always hard to get to know people

12:44 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Be in a groove... mingle with many.. should not be hard to achieve..  it will show the weakness. Nutshell Be Smart.

12:45 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Dont play games. Tell her Up front exactly what you want and be firm about it 

12:47 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

As there is a saying that u don't get what u want but u get what u don't want,

12:55 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

You play hard to get, and then wait to see someone else walk away with your crush.
You act available, you get taken for granted.
Fine balancing act...

12:56 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Show respect and treat her like a lady by day, you may fine that the tiger come out at night remember she too has feeling so build them up and she may just do what you ask her to at night.

1:00 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

A lot of people interested but when I reply not getting any feedback  no meetings  so thinking of leaving the site 

1:00 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Never been hard to get

1:05 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

To each their own.  For me I'd rather be honest in communicating my feelings, and if my feelings are positive towards another female, if it is mutual then let the fun begin.  If i'm into you, I'll let you know and be open to your feelings.

1:09 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Hi

1:09 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Playing hard to get can sometimes invoke a deeper chemistry but that requires some spark to be already present. When meeting someone new playing hard to get right from the beginning is a huge turn off and you can come out looking like an annoying and snobbish person. Doesn't work very well for online dating.

1:17 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I don't want to play hard to get, but I've noticed ALOT of couples on here somewhat respond and then leave you hanging like they are playing hard to get! Would just like to meet a like couple and get to know each other and go from there!

1:27 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

ive only had 2 responsesfrom 2 ladies and they have given up on me too 
 starting to wonder whether this site is on the up and up  would like a reply?

1:34 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I just want a best friend with benefits.  Near where I live.  Haven’t had sex in a while, I need a man for weekly sex, are you the man?

1:40 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I have never been successful playing hard to get or being too easy, needs to be a balanced and compromising approach

1:45 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Life's to short to play games, more so when it applies to personal relationships.  If you start a relationship by playing games you can't complain when you get played in return.

1:52 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I am looking for a mature man for weekly sex, although I could have sex every day.  Yes, I amhirny. I also have a wet pussy for you.  If interested let me know.  I also like to talk dirty on here.

1:54 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I have been on this site for a while but all I seem to come in contact with are people who want to tease but not make any commitment to meet

2:01 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I want true loveable sex but I didn't bgey any girls from Hubli Dharwad still waiting for girls but no use no one didn't contact me they like my profile but y there are not interested in to direct meet 

2:04 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I’m just looking for some extra fun.nothing else.

2:08 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Sometimes playing hard to get is a turn on, but playing the game to long could prevent you getting the fun your looking for or not. !

2:10 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I keep looking and I get a few responses and then nothing. Some are keen to meet up, but timing is off. 

2:10 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Hi

2:12 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I'm just going for some extra fun. Nothing else 

2:13 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Hello🤓

2:14 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Hi

2:31 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I'm looking a sixes and relishanship to me 

2:36 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Hi

2:36 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Better team

2:37 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

But some were doing advt also

2:45 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Hilo sweetie sixes at between the two member r love each other the relishanship between two was good 

2:47 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

I believe in taking things. Naturally.  I'm not into games, drama or trying to be someone I'm not. I have much to offer and dont feel I need to do otherwise. 

2:50 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

U so awesome 

2:53 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Hii

2:55 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Didn't find too hard for mature approach, respect and care at appropriate time find it workable with positive results. Ofcourse at times it was delayed, but did happened. 

3:20 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Hard now

3:26 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

 yup! I agree ! keep it real and be kind, respectful  and genuine to everyone you meet out here on this site. I just wanna meet a genetic woman who can really enjoy being with me Xo Tammy  

3:32 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Maybe!!!

3:41 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

One must not play gard to get but always be friendly and loving 

3:56 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Playing hard to get when it's done deliberately is a turn of sometimes though I've been accused off doing it but missed the sines or they've been subtle most times I've not been available it must be same when I've gone after someone ho knows i haven't found a christle ball that works 😂

4:08 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Yes. 
Just be hone

4:36 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

No, never
played too hard to get someone.

But yes, about
the crushes, the cute neighbor and the mature ladies whom I dreamt about never got
them. The ones I got was always a fluke, might be I look decent and good enough
with conversation. The main thing I got along with them can be my innocence, it
is because I am still in touch with them and we still meet once in a while.

But being
yourself, being classy and respectful will surely help. 

5:00 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Never played hard..... Always got by caring and relaxed attitude. Of course....identified and capture all offer at right time. 

5:05 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Really super natural thoughts

5:09 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Slow and steady

7:21 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Mature, conscious, straight-forward consent....if you want to "role-play" that game, have at it, otherwise grow the fuck up and let people know what you want.

8:15 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Yes

10:14 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

Hi Everyone: I do not play hard to get, I have a hectic schedule and usually am only available to play on weekends. Too many that want to play with me are Married and sneaking around and expect me to change my schedule to work around their sneaking around, which is not easy to do at all. I am a bottom Tgirl & love men & other CDTS Girls to play with quite a bit, and have been a bottom Tgirl since very young and just love it & have lots of love to offer and open to allot of loving, but according to my schedule, I do not think that is too much to ask for ? Wet Kisses to all 👄👄👄👄👄👄 Lily

11:45 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2020

No

1:23 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

Never worked for me so i just let women us me for sex 

2:26 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

Yes

3:14 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

Yes

5:06 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

Yes

5:35 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

It all depends upon if fancy person in front of you to see if they can work out to win you over it

6:38 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

Well lots of factors are there when it comes to this someone might be a newbie nervous someone who’s try to be very discreet so can’t really say

6:55 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

I am join this site but not get any meeting finally I deside to drop membership, if any suggestions for me to get results. 

7:38 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

Hi I'm interested

7:39 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

I'm joined but not responding anyone me

9:13 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

I have been on this site nearly 2 months now not had no luck with no one people send me me saying I like to meet me and all this trying to get in contact with them always they seem to want to do is send me to another site to start all over again is this site real or is it just a load of rubbish please can someone confirm to me that I'm not wasting my time here I hate to think that I'm being LED down the garden path because there's so many beautiful looking women on this site who I can't seem to get to contact with what am I doing wrong please someone help me come back I need a woman I need a woman there

9:58 am Friday, 13th March, 2020

i am not getting though worked hard

1:20 pm Friday, 13th March, 2020

Being member, I don't have any positive response from any one. Just seen matches every time and asked like this or not. It's false site .

2:43 pm Friday, 13th March, 2020

Am doing this with someone atm (not from dating site). I'm in an unhappy 2nd marriage  and my love interest told.me she has a phobia about intimacy so this could be the cure for both of us, hopefully!

5:38 pm Friday, 13th March, 2020

I’m beginning to think this website is a joke nothing really going on 

3:32 pm Saturday, 14th March, 2020

The site is very important and nice.It give enjoyment for all special to lonely men and women

3:24 am Monday, 16th March, 2020

Hii sxe.i like it

9:32 am Thursday, 2nd April, 2020

Hi

9:05 pm Friday, 3rd April, 2020

Its always different from one to another but all are waiting to enjoy life its a common fact finally all are done to enjoy life

9:03 am Friday, 10th April, 2020

Sir, It's a month & my score is nil. Sometimes I feel that it's all stage managed.obviously negativity cheeps in. All the hard work & no pay.However I have a  suggestion. Clean up the nonsense.Those who do come forward & then simply hide  only spoil ur reputation. They r spoiled fr choice but
Ur image takes a beating. (however, those who have respond r sex professionals). Hope u would heed to my suggestion. 

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