Here's a stupid thought for you that I found to be pretty big. I mean, this realization was so big, it was a paradigm shift for me. Maybe I always knew it, but now I actually experience it: "Healthy sexuality does not feel compulsive. at all." There. That's it. I can actually be sexual without being compulsive about it. As strong as sexual urges are, they don't have to be acted on. Deciding to be sexual has become more like a decision to have tea or coffee as I've become healthier. That's because I'm not using it to medicate myself. (unlike the tea or coffee)
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12:43 pm Thursday, 13th December, 2012
What does that mean... you dont have be compulsorily involved in sex for being sexual or do you mean otherwise... ? I'm confused :-Simg src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif" |
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12:45 pm Thursday, 13th December, 2012
What does that mean... you dont have be compulsorily involved in sex for being sexual or do you mean otherwise... ? I'm confused :-S
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