Now I know how girls feel!

So... I know who I am, what I want and what I am comfortable with. I joined this site to meet other like minded people, share stories advice and hopefully MEET: I mean, isn't that what we are all here for ultimately? So yes maybe some people were hoping to find an incredibly convincing, feminine young, sexy and adventurous crossdresser, who looks like they fell out of a dream they had but...
Let's be real, most people you are going to meet are not going to rock every box.

I was/am completely open to ideas and stopped looking at profiles to find those with the right pictures. I started talking to any real person who got in contact, regardless of age, size or looks and felt I was making a connection with people who I wouldn't even have considered a month previously. These same people were eager to meet so I agreed and started to practically discuss when and where. At this point 2 people gave me their mobile numbers. I contacted 1 who was willing to drive along way to meet me, they messaged back, I was I'll fo 2 days messaged again and nothing. They dont respond to text or on the site even though I can see they are online. Person B was also excited about meeting, I texted them got no response and the same on the site! Why bother with all this contact if you are going to just ignore someone?

So now I am left feeling very unconfident and uncertain, and am questioning whether they were real in the first place? There are a lot of fake profiles on here and why do people leave the introductions on if they aren't  interested? For God's sake people do you not get frustrated with an inbox full of messages people never intended to send you? I respond to almost every auto message just in case someone is interested but no one replies. I am fine with talking without meeting, it's not me pushing to meet! 

I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you are interested in someone get in touch, be honest about what you want and see if they are happy with that. Don't lead people up the garden path because its infuriating and as a girl, who is still trying to make sense of everything , I say please stop being so confusing Xx

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