Being a dom, I’ve always wondered what draws a sub, or a woman to us in general? I can’t speak for most people but when I meet someone new, I don’t tell them that this lifestyle is who I am as my first fun fact. But I’ve noticed that when I do, the woman I’m with becomes more interested in me and what I have to say than before, and it makes me wonder why? I’m young. All of my pictures are from high school cause I don’t have any pictures of me in college, I’m overweight and am definitely not even close to average on what is seen as attractive. I don’t have the confidence most older men do to find a partner, and I sure as hell don’t have the money to socialize with someone every week. But I’ve noticed that there’s a generational difference in not only sexual lifestyle but also the approach to sex. Almost every single girl I’ve dated or hooked up with, was into some aspect of BDSM. Spanking, choking, foot fetish, humiliating etc. and I have just always wondered why? Why is my generation exploring this lifestyle, why is my generation the one that has an expressive obsession with family pornography? And in some way or another all of these circle back to my main question. What makes any of the men in these scenarios attractive to the women? I plan on writing about my moral quandaries and questions so if you have one then why not ask it and let me see if I can answer it.
