Women, in the Indian context, are often raised in orthodox, patriarchal, suppressive families where they haven’t had freedom to experiment or explore. Some haven’t even had a chance to fantasise as they haven’t been exposed to things which they could fantasise about! From there, to learning sex with a husband to finally jumping into Swinging or group sex is long journey! It doesn’t happen easily and requires a lot of nurturing, love, compassion, patience and understanding. You have to go slow and introduce the concepts to them and give time and space to absorb and accept. If you put pressure, do comparisons or show irritation or urgency, you will fail and it can hurt your marriage also.
Your job is to plant the seed and then water it regularly and watch the tree grow. You can’t rush it. Always start with communication and fantasies in bed together. If she is shy and giggly initially and still continues and has orgasms, trust me, you have wild cat there hidden behind conditioning of our orthodox society. Get her out of her mental trap slowly and gently and with a lot of patience and love and she will show you a side of herself which even she didn’t know existed! More power to Indian women!
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