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Talking Dirty - turn on or turn off?

2:05 am Tuesday, 15th October, 2019


Does it do it for you? Do you like talking dirty? HOW do you do it?
Seriously, what does it for you? I don’t even know if I can talk dirty, is “Yes baby, that’s how I like it” and “do me, do it harder, I want you” Does that count? If so - I’m doing ok but what if you feel awkward and need some guidance?
I mean there’s porn to help extend your knowledge and perfecting your skills with positions, deep throating and even outfits that are problematic or offer ease of access, but no guide book for talking dirty....

So come on, I’m curious - do you or don’t you? And if you do how were you “inspired”? 


If it’s a turn off for you do you know why and have you had to explain your views?




Comments
10:01 pm Wednesday, 25th March, 2020

I'm not quite sure what you mean by dirty talk during sex or role playing yes
But most of my dirty talk is in foreplay in flirting that becomes more explicit and in directing the conversation towards something more sensual and erotic engage the mind and the body will follow

11:55 pm Monday, 11th May, 2020

Hiya 
sam

8:54 am Thursday, 14th May, 2020

For me hearing it with the person I am with is a huge turn on - it shows that they are expressing themselves bare, raw sexual energy and emotion - directed towards me, at me and especially for me - I find it hugely erotic that a person can bring that out of themselves for me - for me I find explicit descriptive wording best - Also for males it lets us know what the person we're with likes, enjoys and finds erotic - making that connection enjoyable is a must for both parties involved.  My wife is the most well-spoken person i know, but in the bedroom, she becomes the most explicit foul-mouthed person, because she know I enjoy it but equally as important, she enjoys it too

6:06 pm Friday, 5th June, 2020

Dirty talk is a thing of a moment, an expression of need, its a promise an offer, encouragement, a chance to say the normally unsaid without judgement, explore the taboo, edgy, explicit, perhaps a chance to share extremes, or just bonding, yes to dirty talk, bring it on    

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