One small step for us, one giant leap for our relationship. This is it!

As an avid mountain biker, I've always had confidence in my skills and instincts when it comes to attacking the trail and I guess, life in general as well. Big jump or small, high drop or low, it's all the same when it comes down to it - - if you want it to happen, sometimes you just have to commit and make that leap of faith. All the conditioning and preparation will be for naught if you don't decide to take the first step.

My wife and I have been together for more than 20 years, with five little ones to show for it and successful separate careers cultivated along the way. We're in our early 40s and as fit as can be expected, accompished and, if what others say is to be believed, fairly attractive. As far as our sex lives go, we've only been with each other, no 4th base with any other partners for both of us. But that does not mean our sexual relationship is or has been dull. Again, five!

Late last year we began experimenting a little. It started with the stereotypical cucumber, then we moved up to the vibrator. Yep, we are THAT LATE in the game. But better late than never, as they say. We often get the giggles when I jokingly introduce the vibe then the dildo to their lolo cucumber.

Anyway, having enjoyed using those, I took the gamble and stealthily introduced the use of anal plugs. It was a good thing she agreed and enjoyed that "sneaky trick" as it opened up a whole new world of pleasure for us: anal sex. Of course, cleanliness and personal hygiene is the prerequisite. With ample prep and arousal, she has come to enjoy and even ask for it. As for myself, just the thought of entering what was once a mysterious and forbidden place would sometimes be enough to make me come prematurely. The perspective from behind, the warmth and the constriction around me as I enter, the position of power and her moans and encouragement that go with it...just... wow.

Then, I started talking to her about my fantasies, my bucket list, as it were. She was understanding and appreciative of my openness and in confiding in her. We talked about threesomes, about the possible scenarios and combinations. I said that in all honesty, her maximum pleasure was my primary objective. But of course, I get to enjoy myself as well. But that I would drop the subject if it wasn't ok with her.

She wasn't all-in on the idea but she admitted she was curious and a bit excited about it. She would prefer another male as the invited participant for her pleasure and because she is not sure how she would react to another woman sharing with us, but later admits that anything could happen. In one of our conversations, she said she has accepted that this "encounter" will most probably happen to us. God, I love her.

So, now here we are, on this site I accidentally stumbled upon, taking the first real step to making all of the above narrative happen. My ony wish is that this will be a fun, pleasurable and above all a positive and edifying experience for us as a couple and as individuals. I hope the members will bring out the welcome mat and extend us a helping hand. Hoping for the best.

Helmet on. Pedals ready. Droppin in. Happy landings.

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