Spanking: Is it discipline or foreplay?

So, being kind of slow and groggy this morning when I got up, my thought was I need a good smack on the ass to get me moving.  And that led to the title up there.  It's no secret I want to be spanked in play, it says I do right in the first line of my profile.  I my not that vast experience and reading, spanking is used often as a discipline or punishment tool in our little world of kink.  But some women state that getting spanked the right way gets them wet.  Now that's pretty cool for those who like to spank, but I'm a guy, so can't say that.  Now I have given and received spankings, and both can be fun.  But for a guy, what does a good long hard spanking do?  For me, it is a highly personal expression of power over me.    It is a strong statement to either not do something or to do something my dominant wants me to do that I might not otherwise do.  And, in my perverted brain, it implies there is going to be sex play whether I want it or not.  So foreplay is what it is for me.  And my Dominant is either going to be screwing or pegging me sooner or later, because they want to.  And the pain from the spanking definitely puts me in a pliable, almost helpless state of mind, so I can't even build up the will to resist if I wanted to.  And each thrust pounds into me that my dominant owns me, completely

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