Why Yoni Massage
Throughout a woman's life cycle much frustration, pain and trauma (menstruation, discharge, intercourse, infection, fearful sex, birth, etc.) are held in the tissues of Yoni (vagina). In Yoni a woman stores lot of sexual energy and any tension or trauma that happen in her past life. The aftermath of sexual trauma can impact the psyche in such a way that it prevent a per from letting go and experiencing true orgasm.
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The Yoni is the woman's emotional sex center. The woman carries in her Yoni her highest potential for pleasure and ecstasy as well as her physical and emotional wounding from her past. To achieve her highest pleasure and ecstasy, the woman needs to move and clear the blocked and trapped energies and emotions of past trauma. When these energies and emotions are released, she is freed to express her natural, powerful and expansive orgasmic nature.
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What is Yoni Massage
Yoni is a Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as "Sacred Space" or "Sacred Temple" (i.e., Pussy, Cunt, Twat, etc). Tantric philosophy approaches the vagina from a place of love and respect and yoni massage as a means of honoring women. The purpose of yoni massage is to create a space for the woman (the receiver) to relax, and enter a state of high arousal and experience much pleasure from her Yoni. The giver experiences the joy of being of service and witnessing and sharing, and creating a very special moment.
The Yoni massage can also be used as a form of safer sex and is an excellent activity to build trust and intimacy. Some use it to assist women to break through sexual blocks or trauma.
This massage can help the women who have been disturbed either mentally or physically.
Yoni massage brings peace and also encourages a connection with a feminine.
Yoni massage is a very powerful one. The giver simply allows the receiver to enjoy herself.
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During The Session
Yoni massage is done in a comfortable and safe space. The room is warm enough to be comfortable naked, and the area is free from disturbances. Play soft relaxing music, if needed, but the music should not divert attention from each other.
You are lying in a comfortable position (on your back), propped up on pillows so that you can see your vagina. Before beginning, I should start with simple breathing exercises to relax and focus the breath. Now I am massaging other areas of your body, giving you time to relax.
Now I will start by gently massaging the inside of your thighs and your abdomen before pouring a small quantity of warmed oil on the "mound" so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. Then I begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of your Yoni. This is done at a nice, slow, relaxing pace before gently squeezing your outer lips between my thumb and index finger, and sliding up and down the full length of each lips.
Then I insert one or two fingers inside your Yoni to gently explore and massage around the area to relax, nurture the Yoni, emloying such technique as the "crescent motion". I continue massaging the tantric sacred spot (or G-spot) with my finger/s.
If you have an orgasm at any stage, I will keep you breathing deeply, and continue massaging if you want. You may experience more orgasms with each one increasing in intensity. In Tantra this is called "riding the wave". This is not the goal but a possible bonus. Even without an orgasm you should experience ecstasy on a different level to your previous experiences.
Women often have pre-conceived ideas that something is expected in return when a man touches her vagina. Whereas during a Yoni massage the lady is relieved of the pressure that many feel when making love, and incited experience the pleasure of being touched in a loving way without anything being expected in return.
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After The Session
The massage can last for few minutes and sometimes few hours. At the end of the Yoni massage you will feel the emotional and physical well being. The massage can be ended by gently and slowly massaging you to enjoy the effect of the never experienced powerful massage.
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Goals of Yoni Massage
Yoni Massage is a very intimate form of therapy. During the yoni massage laughter, tears, anger, moaning and deep pleasure can be experienced. Most women have tensions and blockages in the lower body; quite a few without knowing it themselves. Yoni massage is a chance to get beyond the pressure that many women feel when making love.
Its goal is mainly to massage the yoni and provide pleasure. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and not have to worry about achieving something. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. I allow the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax. This perspective will build greater intimacy and trust, and will greatly expand your sexual horizons******Benefits of Yoni Massage
The main benefits of Yoni Massage are the sense of peace. Both the partners engaged in the massage and can have the feeling of connectedness, nurturing and intimacy. Various other possible benefits include:
. Opening up to new levels of ecstatic pleasure
. Release of emotional tension and stress
. Elimination of emotional blockages in relation to sex
. Reduction of menstrual pain
. Elimination of pain when having intercourse
. Making the yoni more sensitive and more pleasurable to receive touch
. Increases sensitivity in the Yoni
. Increasing natural lubrication when sexually aroused
. More powerful orgasms and easier to achieve
. Reduction of cellulite on the upper legs and buttocks
