There are a host of couples who are part of this online community and they will be better served if they adhere to some basic level of etiquette. Being direct does not mean you need to be rude - there is a world of difference. Second, when you initiate the conversation, you need to respond to replies. Third, when you reply you need to bedirect in your response. If the problem is with your command of the language, please say so. Otherwise, you come across as totally unsophisticated, which is off putting for many people. There’s no harm in saying no politely or saying that you’ve changed your mind.
