Oral Sex Tips for Men
11. Don’t go straight to your “money-move” if you plan on offering a full-service blow job.
We each have our go-to move that is designed to seal the deal and finish him off, but many of us make the mistake of pulling out all the stops too early in the episode. Beginning with the hottest move makes it difficult to build toward a crescendo and maintain the excitement and endurance needed to reach climax. And since your go-to technique presumably involves more friction, speed, pressure and suction, your jaw, tongue, lips and facial muscles are likely to tire prematurely.
Instead of going for the gold right away, rile him into a frenzy with feather-light touch, teasing licks, wet kisses, shallow sucks and heavy breath so that by time you get to your money-move, he’s bursting with excitement!
12. Try “The Cheater.”
This move is a life-changer! Use your fingers on the outside of your lips to squeeze them together as you suck. Your jaw will get a break and you’ll create an extra-tight squeeze that will make his toes curl. I like to use a few drops of lube on the inside of my lips for this one since it creates additional friction as you suck and slide.
13. Stimulate the inner penis.
Use two fingers or a toy to press into the perineum just behind the balls to stimulate the inner penile bulb as you suck on his penis. Increase the pressure as his arousal intensifies and stroke firmly back and forth (a tiny movement will do) in rhythm with your sucking.
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No two sets of balls are the same, so you’ll want to ask him how to touch, suck, lick and cup according to his specific tastes. Generally, the balls are more sensitive to light touch during the early stages of arousal and can handle a bit more pressure as pleasure peaks, but I advise that you ask for direction even if it means you have to talk with your mouth full.
15. Reverse the positioning of your tongue.
Most blow jobs involve placing the tongue against the underside of the penis as you suck, as this allows you to lower your mouth farther along the shaft. But the underside of the tongue offers a soft, gentle texture worth exploring. Try a few shallow sucks with the underside of your tongue on the upper side of the penis alternating with deeper swallows in the traditional position.
16. Try “The Supermodel.”
As you suck from base to tip, suck your cheeks in with enthusiasm as though you're a supermodel offering an exaggerated pose to highlight your cheekbones. Your inner cheeks will offer some added warmth, texture and suction to the oft-neglected sides of his shaft as you fully envelop him in a 360 degree embrace.
17. Use your hands too!
You don’t get style-points for riding hands-free during a blow job, so put your slippery, strong, sensual lubed-up fingers to good use. Create a ring around the base of the penis or use two hands to create a tight band around the base and both testes. Alternatively, use your hands to gently cup his balls, stroke his inner thighs, stimulate his nipples, rub the lower third of his shaft, follow the rhythm of his hips or reach down and touch yourself! The more aroused you are, the more enthusiasm you’ll show while going down.
18. Use lube!
When it comes to oral, a little lube goes a long way. You can use your lips to apply lube to his head, shaft, balls and perineum or simply add a few drops to the frenulum (the spot right behind the underside of the head) to increase sensitivity while you stroke, kiss, and suck away.
19. Swallow while you suck to perform “throat kegels."
As you get more comfortable taking him into the back of your mouth, try “throat kegels” to create pressure around his shaft and mimic the sensation of swallowing: lower your lips two-thirds of the way down and swallow deeply exaggerating the sounds and gulping sensations.
20. Create good vibrations.
Roll a small vibrating toy along his perineum, balls or penile base during oral or press it against the outside of your cheeks for a lower-intensity sensation. I like the We-Vibe Tango or Touch which are waterproof and offer a range of settings for newbies and vibe-experts alike. You can learn more about sex toys for couples here!
