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How it all started, and how it remained fun

3:01 pm Sunday, 24th March, 2019

Was looking for something, but didn’t quite know what that ‘something’ was.
Tried the dating game - but that never seemed to work, always hit and miss and when do you actually drop the ‘Dom/sub’ dynamic into the conversation.
Gave up really, then decided to have one more go, updated a dating profile with a few choice phrases, nothing too overt, didn’t want to attract any crazies.
After a few conversations Rachel cropped up. Rachel referred to me as Sir from the off. She made it clear that she was looking for some direction and training, but as a relative newbie it would have to be a long slow process of building trust and pushing boundaries to find out what worked.
So, after a few weeks chatting we met, coffee at first. Then a return visit where Rachel was waiting for me, as instructed. That evening went way too fast. It ignited something in Rachel that meant that over the next few months we moved on to more daring exploits. This included her waiting naked for me, being strung up by her wrists before a sound thrashing and being spanked across my knee. 
No broken skin, no bleeding, some marks that remained for a few days but all cleared up now. 
Lots of D/s dynamic, but done sensibly, carefully, slowly with the knowledge that at any point it gets too much it stops! 



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7:52 am Monday, 1st April, 2019

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