So one thing that should ring with some one, should be are they a safe person?
Are they know in the community or are they a private player. Do they adhere to RACK or other set of standards withing our community.
Well first off I am very much a KNOWN person within the community I have and had run in both now and in the past.
I PUT MY SAFETY AS WELL S THOSE I PLAY WITH s play partners- or those I am in a relationship with.
I STD and HIV test regularly- And those I have been with fallow the same standards.
You are putting your trust in me- just as I am putting my trust in you.
HAVE A SAFE CALL WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE FOR THE FIRST TIME.
Make sure they have the phone number of the person-picture- and where you are meeting (( RESTAURANT))- that way if you feel off for any reason you have protection.
If you feel anything is wrong......Listen to that red flag.
