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The joys and stuggles of the Ds life style

12:57 pm Saturday, 9th March, 2019

Being a master is both fulfilling and challenging. Finding the right sub for your need an inevitably take a life time in some cases. But through all my experience all 21 years of it in the lifestyle ive learned they may not be a perfect match for you but if u train them well they can be for someone else. I will continue the search helping submissives establish themselves and help those that wish to grow do so and those that wish to leave leave. 
 
People should know the difference between what they see on like movies and whaf truely entails in the life style. Often time i find women that want to be tied up like they see in Fifty shades of grey or they read in erotic novels. Though i do like there curiosity the lifestyle to me is so much more. For me a sub shouldnt only be there for sex. But also for everyday things for there Master. In the lifestyle a woman is to play the role of submissive serving master not only asa sexual release but that of mental and physical. Examples of this a master may enjoy a certain look in a submissive.
A submissive should ensure the Master is taken care of after a long day at work. In turn the master takes care of his submissive providing her affection and praise. Offering her gifts and things when she does as she should. But also a master must be stern and handle the submissive when she fails her master. From a subtle slap on the hand to a riding crop to the bare ass. The punishments we must remember should not bring pleasure so make sure you find what is not a turn on when a punishment must be given. 



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1:31 am Monday, 1st April, 2019

I find pleasure in every thing,  so I dont know

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