The power over another person is like a high, without ingesting anything. The subtle hint to drop to the floor and serve me, to otk spanking, are a few to name, but all require trust of the other partner.I believe that blinfolding, and any way of restraining especially the hands and legs is a beautiful scene. Watching someone have fear of what is to come next is quite appealing. I like to start some soft touching of the genitals, edging and not letting that person orgasm, seeing the lips shake, and hearing please sir. Now if she masturbates without permission, I will restrain and run what I call a train. A train is where I start with the smallest dildo all the way up to the biggest, then back down multiple times somewhat forcing orgasms along the way.