Down and Dirty OR Tantra Trancendent ?
Two appealing paths to sex, which one do you prefer?
While porn, toys, whips etc can work wonders for some and while I must admit to having dabbled a bit myself, I'm more of a Trancendent kind of girl.
Having been a practising healer for quite some time now I was gifted with the ability to interact and transform peoples' energies. Along with that came insight on how to initiate bliss states of a sexual nature.
TANTRA is an ancient path to enlightenment and can bring the most profound mindblowing estatic states between Lovers
TANTRA 101 for beginners - Preparation is the key!
Time should be spent in advance preparing the space where the Lovers are to be intimate. Give the room a really good clean and clear. Some incense is a simple way to lift the atmosphere. Make it comfortable, light candles and set a tone for romance.
While taking a shower, imagine that purple rain is flowing through the water washing away any old intimate connections, any re-occuring thoughts, any feelings of inadequacy, any doubts and fears. Both you and your partner should check their emotional baggage at the bedroom door. Close your eyes before you step in the toom and imagine you have a very large heavy rucksack of rocks filled with your 'stuff'. Leave it outside the door. You can pick it back up after the session should you so wish.
Sit down opposite your partner. Before touching each other, look into each others eyes. Don't be shy! Smile deeply at each other and take a bow to each other to honour the God/Goddess Within each other. Begin to take slow deep breathes and connect with your sexual centre within your pelvis. Then match the candence and rhythm of your partner's breath. Be present. If you find yourself thinking or fantasising (or writing the shopping list) return your attention to your partner, how they look, how they feel, how they smell. You're goal is to be in your body as much as possible and at the same time allowing Higher States of Bliss to come in.
A secret in any energy work or play is ''where attention goes energy flows'. Take your time initiating and delay your orgasms as long as you can, allowing exquisite bliss to arise in your sensations and Being. Remember to give thanks to yourselves and the Goddess/Creative/Sexual Principal afterwards.
The practice of mindfulness on a regular basis in addition to helping you in all areas of your life, can help facilitate higher and better sexual energy states.
TANTRA ANYONE?
YES PLEASE..................
