I am in an open marriage. This is new, so we are evolving as we navigate this new approach to marriage. So this leads to the pursuit of and hopefully experiencing some or all of my fantasies. They are probably tame compared to some out there, but that is okay.
The primary element of my fantasies is that my will dominates intimacy and sexual interactions. That may sound weird, you're either dominant or not. In this legally precarious, anti-male world we live in, it is not so simple. Yes, there must be consent. Finding the right woman for this kind of arrangement without getting ostracized or arrested for even suggesting such a thing can be difficult. Unfortunately, I live in central North Carolina near what I think is world center for rabid feminists that seem to hate all men (I know that there are plenty of decent feminists; but, as with all things, there are those that take it to the extreme). That is why I like this site. There are a lot of like-minded people openly exploring their own sexuality and looking for their match. I do not seek a master/servant relationship, nor do I seek to control every aspect of a woman's life.
Ravishing a woman sounds very interesting. Until I joined this site, I had no idea that some women liked that. Still evolving, and liking the possibilities. I would like to experience what this is like. I guess this related closely to wrestling that I find appealing as well.
Some mild bondage interest me too. Wrist-to-thigh straps, bed straps, and blindfolds oh my! Again, follows the main theme of my will dominates in the bedroom. Perhaps even some electric-stimulation. I don't think I could get into extreme BDSM, but solid spanking, slapping, hair pulling, maybe even some choking are not totally out of the question.
Ideally, I want to find a FWB that lives near me (within an hour or less drive). Body types that appeal to me are average, slim, petite, or athletic. My match will be somewhat submissive and with similar fantasies to discuss and explore together. The right woman could even become part of the family in some form of polyamorous relationship that we all agree on.
I welcome advice, compliments, and even some gentle criticism.
I am seeking a physical relationship with a female, preferably human, who's body is average, slim, petite, or athletic. Massage, lite bondage, ravishing you... all sounds fun.
