Bi-curious: A few thoughts

I wrote a blog post recently about being bi-curious ... but it was deleted.

I think that 'bi-curious' should not really be the only option here: you can be curious once, but then, after that .... you have been there, you have tried, and you have decided to come back -- but only sometimes perhaps, but only when you are feeling comfortable or aroused or ... whatever.

And i am one of those: I've been there - had a cock in my mouth, and been in a few guys' mouths, and usually I've been happy about it. It was fun, playful, exciting, and mutual.

When having some fun, when playing in a 3-some or 4-some or whatever-some, then its good to be fun and open and flexible. When a few people are on the bed - or on the floor, in the shower, on the sofa, or in a club bathroom and having fun - then its good to be comfortable with everyone else's body there, and be comfortable with touching or being touched by anyone of them, of both sexes. And I think that's how my wife and I are.

But its primarily not what makes us excited, its not what makes us wet or hard or aroused. But we are happy to get down and dirty in a group-some and play with same-sex people. 

So, what i am saying is this: we are not bi-curious, we are bi-playful, bi-comfortable, or bi-flexible. But we are not bi-curious - we have already done it and tried and had the fun. But we are not bisexual either. Same-sex play is not our first priority - but we are happy to indulge when it feels good. ; p

Sorry for the messy stream-of-consciousness writing. Enjoy the day. 🙂

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