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What is the G-Spot? Does the G-Spot Exist?

9:09 am Wednesday, 26th December, 2018

"What is the g-spot?"

G-Spot has so many names—Gräfenberg spot, G-area, female prostate, black pearl, (other) pleasure button... we don't have that much concrete information about it. Is the g-spot real? Where is it? How do I find my g-spot? How do you best stimulate it? What are g-spot orgasms?

Does the G-Spot Exist?
It's complicated. I've gotten many different answers from medical practitioners—everything from it's actually something called the Skene's glands to it's actually the deeper clitoral structure, to it doesn't exist, to simply no one knows.

It Isn't ConsistentOne thing non-researchers/academics often don't appreciate is how precise terminology is in science. Just having something in this general area that feels good when stimulated isn't enough to define the g-spot.

Attempts to pin down what the g-spot is have been slippery. Gräfenberg's original paper talked about this zone—he didn't call it the g-spot—being connected to the urethra. Since then, in connection with research into female ejaculation (squirting), it got clarified into Skene's glands which was also posited to the be source of female ejaculate.

Unfortunately, in different studies, people tended to report the g-spot in different spots—and often not where the Skene's glands are. This then led to a lot of research and activity into looking for places in the vagina with more nerve-endings, which has been inconclusive, and positing that maybe g-spot sensations are from pressing against the clitoral structure—which is much larger than most people are aware and also exists around the vagina. [2, 5, 6, 10]
So What Does This Mean For Me?
First off, if you can't find it where "everyone says it is," you shouldn't be too concerned. That's pretty consistent with what's caused researchers to pull their hair out on the topic for years. You're definitely not "messing it up" or abnormal.

Second, that means if you DO know where it is for you, that's great and keep doing what you're doing.It Isn't Consistent
One thing non-researchers/academics often don't appreciate is how precise terminology is in science. Just having something in this general area that feels good when stimulated isn't enough to define the g-spot.

Attempts to pin down what the g-spot is have been slippery. Gräfenberg's original paper talked about this zone—he didn't call it the g-spot—being connected to the urethra. Since then, in connection with research into female ejaculation (squirting), it got clarified into Skene's glands which was also posited to the be source of female ejaculate.

Unfortunately, in different studies, people tended to report the g-spot in different spots—and often not where the Skene's glands are. This then led to a lot of research and activity into looking for places in the vagina with more nerve-endings, which has been inconclusive, and positing that maybe g-spot sensations are from pressing against the clitoral structure—which is much larger than most people are aware and also exists around the vagina. [2, 5, 6, 10]
So What Does This Mean For Me?
First off, if you can't find it where "everyone says it is," you shouldn't be too concerned. That's pretty consistent with what's caused researchers to pull their hair out on the topic for years. You're definitely not "messing it up" or abnormal.

Second, that means if you DO know where it is for you, that's great and keep doing what you're doing.



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