Hi every one, this is my first attempt at writing a blog so please bear with me , any feed back positive or negative is most welcome
we are a married couple based in Guwahati in Assam.
ours was a normal traditional family set up with us leading a normal lifestyle.
We both are well educated and well traveled and had the opportunity to stay abroad.
We had been married** for year itch and started exploring ways to revive our sex life.
I was an avid porn watcher and we *genr with the porn playing. I had know abt swinging lifestyle while I was studying abroad and had read abt it and even seen the clubs.
We started talking abt the feeling of havin other people in our room while havin sex , and this fantasy of mine became the basis on which brought up the idea of a swinging lifestyle.
My wife was aghast as expected and she was like how the hell in ur right mind can u think abt it.
I told her that almost all of the married men are cheating with their wife's b****vin sex outside their marriage. What I was proposing was havin fun together wherein she would also get the opportunity to meet other people.
Just to give u a background of my wife's sexual desires, she loves havin sex, she needs to climax atleast **** times before she is satisfied. We have some toys which we have accumulated over our trips abroad and she loves them. She loves foreplay and loves to get licked and fingered. In fact she is among the very very few women who don't mind anal sex.
Any ways back to our story, I proposed the idea and she said she is not sure but for me she would meet people casually.
So that's how the process started of just meeting people casually di****ussing about their sex lives , fantasies etc etc
In fact my wife took almost 1 year to actually swing with a couple, and in the process she actually di****overed her desire to play with other women. She is now openly bi curious and is quiet open to playing with other women.
However the swinging ****ene here in India, and specifically in the north east is not very conducive for new comers, apart from the ever omnipresent Fake Couples , we have the "Too Eager To Jump on the BED " couples .
No offence to them but what we feel is generally women like to have some chemistry and some kind of rapport to actuall****ve fun. I am not sure about others but for us , we both enjoy watching each other having fun. Infact the thrilling part for both of us is the chemistry that we develope with new people , hear about the experiences share ours .
Some one has rightly said that there is a difference between "Being EDUCATED and Being Literate "
Well most of us Literate but sadly very few are Educated.
Once we become educated we are more open to hearing others opinions and thoughts and working together and start respecting women in this lifestyle.
Till then we will keep getting couples who r into it to use their wife to increase the count of women that the****ve slept with.
Love u all . Pls leave feedback so that we can come up with something new
Till then .. Cheers 🍻
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10:01 am Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Well most of us Literate but sadly very few are Educated. its not educated.....it shoud read as "wise" |
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10:13 am Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Rightly said, its more important to respect each other, their opinions, thoughts |
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10:38 am Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Very well described what should one col get out of other couple, sex never should be on the agenda but the chemistry and sharing fantasy should be |
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3:12 pm Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Rightly expressed your opinion.. Kudos to it.. We too being in this lifestyle for the last four years from this region have encountered many couples who outrightly wanna jump on bed without knowing each other.. The comfort of the ladies is not being considered.. We both prefer to meet and know the other couple casually over coffee or so but all in vain..If we ask a casual meet most of them start up with up some problem or so (may be some would be genuine ) but till date not enough fortunate to meet any... When I asked some hubbies that whether your wife would prefer to meet or know me or us ( as said we prefer) , straightway having sex was only the given option... Anyways lots of experience, good and bad though the later being the max still waiting to meet up some LIKE MINDED couples... Thanks for sharing , we too got an opportunity to express us... Cheers... |
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3:16 pm Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Ur bang on with how women think and act..I agree with everything u said.. sex is very different for women compared to man...And good communication is the key here... |
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3:18 pm Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Great thought. ..real men think about the enjoyment of both...it's increase trust,bonding....the most beautiful thing is to see the loved one enjoying.... |
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4:10 pm Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Kind of our story as well minus the anal. |
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4:20 pm Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Actually same story of every couple. |
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5:37 pm Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Like the way you think |
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5:37 pm Wednesday, 14th November, 2018
Like the way you think |
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12:23 am Thursday, 15th November, 2018
Very nice of you to put up your thoughts...I think slowly India is getting sexually liberated and really we should respect the ladies opinion .kudos to you for giving your wife the space and time to think and not push her into it..you are a real gentleman. |
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12:48 am Thursday, 15th November, 2018
I totally agree with you |
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2:40 am Thursday, 15th November, 2018
Really nice one...sounded like a mix of facts n fiction...Please enlighten us by differentiating between the two. Enjoyed reading it. We have some similarities and hope to connect soon. |
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4:25 am Thursday, 15th November, 2018
Very nice.. loved reading |
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4:43 am Thursday, 15th November, 2018
Very nicely put buddy ! Keep sharing loved it |
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4:58 am Thursday, 15th November, 2018
Well scripted with a thought on every premise. |
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5:54 am Thursday, 15th November, 2018
We as a couple are very much in starting stage, wife still aghast... 😉 |
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7:54 am Thursday, 15th November, 2018
nice column. very apt. its good that your wife accepted the new lifestyle. does not regularly happen |
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8:51 am Thursday, 15th November, 2018
Really nicely written it's practical everyone has desire almot 90people after few years of routine but hesitate to express n also don't know to whom n where to discuss n approach.. This is d case with men, even u can't think how females express their hidden desires so hubby has to take lead give confidence to their partner for this in fact I must say love respect increases than before entering in this lifestyle start understanding each other than before also both r rejunate n satisfied with new friends increases family atmosphere happy n pleasant.... Well written bro keep it up ur good work.. Hope we will get chance to meet u both when we will be on tour of ur side 😊😊 |
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5:28 pm Thursday, 15th November, 2018
Nicely written ,quite true,there are lot of people who straight away want to jump into bed,but that's not how it should be rather knowing and liking each other is the key.other wise it sounds and feel very low. |
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1:26 pm Saturday, 17th November, 2018
Good one bro...keep up the writing spirit in you..!!! cheers and happy swinging!! |
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1:10 am Friday, 7th December, 2018
Awesome. |
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11:20 am Sunday, 9th December, 2018
Very nice and real written |
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11:20 am Sunday, 9th December, 2018
Very nice and real written |
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11:42 am Sunday, 9th December, 2018
Well written.Keep it up |
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2:41 am Thursday, 13th December, 2018
Lovely read! Especially the literateeducated analogy. Hope the scorekeepers get the point. |
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4:37 am Saturday, 5th October, 2019
Righly put brother.. well written.. I have trouble submitting my blods as they get easily rejected for the slightest use of the wrong word. Not sure how many times you submitted this to get it approved... Trust me I know getting a blog approved is not am easy task. Hats off to all bloggers for the trouble you all went through to publish them. Same goes to you. |
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9:33 am Friday, 23rd October, 2020
Nicely written your exp... It is very for helpful for newcomers especially. Any way better to write more and more exp... then we have some fun to read. Thanks for guys for sharing your exp. |
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5:22 am Saturday, 2nd October, 2021
Comfort of a lady is the crux to enjoy this lifestyle |
