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12:26 am Monday, 15th October, 2018

I've asked this question a dozen times but i always seem to get a different reason every damn time..

i kinda already know the answer but for the sake of a discussion let's dig into it anyway..

is it better to fuck a virgin or an experienced girl/boy?

for the guys, i understand that it's like an ego thing, being the first fuck of a girl really does things to your manhood.. but talking to a lot of guys, they don't seem to enjoy it as much as they enjoy it with me (and by me i mean experienced ones lol)

for the girls, i have no idea.. being a little bit of a hedonist, i put my pleasure first especially in bed.. i don't see a lecture in fingering in bed as an exciting mid sex activity.. so if there are any ladies out there that likes virgin boys, let's hear your opinion..

as per my preference, i prefer an experienced guy.. i do not feel like christening an innocent boy into the sexual world that we live in.. i do not like the idea of teaching a boy what to do with his tongue when we french kiss, when he does the australian kiss (it's like a french kiss, but down under *wink wink*) or where to put his fingers in order to give me pleasure..

so for the guys messaging me to break their virginity, I'm not interested.. get back to me when you have more experience.. 😉

I lost my virginity to a virgin guy.. i didn't even know if we did it properly because we both had no idea what we were doing.. hahaha.. come to think of it, my first time wasn't really that memorable.. he just tried to put his dick in my pussy, pump a little bit and got it over with.. like a porn site ad banner..

after that horrible experience i did had a sexual encounter with someone more experienced.. it was the very first time i had my pussy eaten and boy did it blew my mind.. but that was a few boyfriends apart.. if i had an outstanding sexual experience the very first time I've had sex, i would have been more addicted to it.. eeeerr.. like i am right now..

i mean i would've been addicted to it earlier in life.. haha

so any opinion on this matter? aside from the ego boost what else do you guys get from fucking a virgin person?




Comments
10:45 am Monday, 15th October, 2018

Nothing will ever really beat experience. But if let's say the virgin is really eager to learn new things and not just getting her hymen broken,  I'd say it would be more than just an ego boost. It's more like a combination of ego boost and a fantasy fulfillment of being a sex teacher or professor.

11:15 am Monday, 15th October, 2018

hi care for meet up?

11:21 am Monday, 15th October, 2018

I always prefer an experienced girl.. They know what they want and matured and juicy at right places to enjoy the fun. 

12:31 pm Monday, 15th October, 2018

For casual encounters, getting it on with somebody who knows what she's doing is much more preferable than somebody who's learning things for the first time. The mood is more easily established, things happen more fluidly, and everybody generally gets a good experience overall. But that doesn't mean that getting to teach a first timer the ropes is bad; it could still be a really good, fun, and chill experience if a solid connection has already been established. If done correctly, being part of somebody's first time can be an emotionally rewarding experience.

2:03 pm Monday, 15th October, 2018

...basically, it depends on the person's preference.. maybe they want to see the blood from the act of deflowering the lady..
some might be... just curious about how tight a virgin is and they want to compare... and some might say nothing in particular, they were just searching for pleasure.. etc.

8:41 pm Monday, 15th October, 2018

Ur totally right. I prefer someone with experience....im open to new things.Hahahah..and also I make a point to make a girl so wet wet..heheh

11:07 pm Tuesday, 16th October, 2018

Its m vice.versa thing for the two  for the guy the virgin thing is an a complishment or the ego thing and for the girl thrill but for me im more of the eXXXp

7:43 am Friday, 19th October, 2018

At my age, experience is key.  I neither have the patience nor desire to teach.  I want to receive as much as I give.  Furthermore, since I am very open to new things, I would want to be with a woman who is also as open as I am.

9:56 pm Friday, 19th October, 2018

If a virgin wants you to have her virginity, then make sure you blow her mind away with the experience, and stay the course all night long till the wee hours of the morning, if you have to. Appreciate that it is not just virginity, but years of pent up emotion and fantasy that are all yours to enjoy and realize. Preparing for that moment is all about staying hard and horny for as long as you can. If you can be her many firsts, and not just take her virginity, then she will be your friend for benefits forever, regardless of her status.

11:44 pm Friday, 19th October, 2018

Here's my take regarding.

If it were a virgin, it may take longer. Why? You need to make sure that she experiences the complete pakage. Cunnilingus, whirlwind tornado, 69niner, the finger, etc. This is to make sure that she feels comfortable and she wants more. And when i say she wants more, it means she wants 'it' inside her willinglly. Why again? So she cant feel the pain. What she'll feel is bliss and pleasure. Sure there'll be times that she'll ask you to slow down a bit since it's her first time, we just need to be more patient. 🙂 after that she'll crave for more and you'll be surprised later she'll do to you 

Experienced girl - more fun. Since she knows what she wants. All we need to make sure is to make her cum 3 or more times before us so she can have a good time. Anything lower than 3....lol

My verdict, it doesn't matter wether it is a virgin or not. Been there both ways and we had fun. What matters most is how you give pleasure, time, and experience to one another. At the end of the day it's your connection what matters the most 🙂

12:39 pm Sunday, 21st October, 2018

Have no idea, have never taken a cherry.  Have been with a lot of women but never a cherry. My best sexual experience will be my next one.

4:32 am Monday, 22nd October, 2018

whether it is better to fuck a virgin girl or an experienced one entirely depends on the guy. me, I prefer experienced. tried it on a 19-year old virgin college stud when I was 27, I think, and it's a lot more enjoyable when you're with an experienced female. but, eating that cherry down there is a lot more exciting when the girl is virgin. you get all the emotions from the girl for the very first time. and for me, eating that cherry down there is more addictive than doing the pumping.

5:31 pm Monday, 22nd October, 2018

its more of the pleasure of the dick, body, and ears.

virgins grip tighter on your arms or hugs your body tightly, there is a different tune because of the pain and pleasure of the moan you hear. it feels good to have someone enduring the pain at the same time being pleasured by your dick... 

and sadly, the idea that the woman is still clean because no one entered before him.

but the con is they are not into pleasuring. they are more of the accepting since its their first time, so all they know is open their legs because they still dont know how to pleasure yet until they start to crave it... and thus gaining experience. 

2:20 pm Wednesday, 24th October, 2018

i fuck a virgin girl and she was so happy because i do eating pussy. even if it cummed already

6:22 pm Friday, 26th October, 2018

Men are hunters. It is like a trophy if we are the first one to catch a virgin. Nonetheless, having sex with an experienced girl is way better. 

8:01 am Saturday, 27th October, 2018

Naughty experience ladies are the best to have a session with

1:57 pm Saturday, 27th October, 2018

Nothing, 😉 

8:00 pm Thursday, 1st November, 2018

It is just the thought of being the 1st guy who got the price. The same feeling of unboxing a new phone or the 1st time you fit a new shoe. That's basically it. But on a personal perspective I'lld rather have someone who's more experienced in the craft of love making. One, they already know what to do and what to expect.

3:51 am Friday, 2nd November, 2018

Never again with a virgin.  Not a teacher.

11:25 pm Saturday, 3rd November, 2018

Sex is not about fucking alone. A dog can do that during mating season. For us human we have to consider 3 things. Emotions, arousal and physical preparedness. You got to have at least an ounce of attachment to the one you are sleeping with, heshe turns you on and youre physically well to do it. When you have those 3 things it does not matter if it id the first time or not.

6:07 pm Sunday, 2nd December, 2018

Being on bed with a lady who mastered coitus is way better than with a virgin,  plus virgins are too clingy and they complain a lot during love making. Unlike to an experienced seductress all you'll ever hear are moans and directions on how to make the deed enjoyable and better for both of you. 

4:52 am Thursday, 7th February, 2019

I almost cry reading

8:01 am Sunday, 10th February, 2019

hello

8:08 am Thursday, 4th July, 2019

Since this is the only way we can write on your wall, so be it. We think, as long as you do it with someone you're into. You can make mistakes with and you're confortable with. If you have that covered, then you make sure it's someone who'll allow you to enjoy it!

While I prefer fucking a non-virgin who acts like a non-virgin. Rather than a non-virgin that acts like she's a virgin. The most important part of anything that involves a woman is comfortability. If she's comfortable, you can make her do anything.

That's the key to women.

At least that's what I found that works.

11:18 am Wednesday, 7th August, 2019

i dont really care weather my partner would be a virgin or an expert when it comes to bed. what is important is that both enjoys each others moment. 

3:18 pm Thursday, 2nd April, 2020

Nothing beats a woman who knows what to do and how to do it...

2:11 am Sunday, 19th April, 2020

I agree, we all started innocent and ignorant at first. Experimenting makes new discoveries. In my experience, as long as both are open to anything you'll achieve endless pleasure. If i may add, a guy must learn to explore first and be sensible before making the full attack. Every girl has their own kiliti.

6:01 pm Thursday, 30th July, 2020

Getting it on with a virgin is like a professional playing ball with an amateur. You'll get some workout. But it ain't gonna be as much fun.

3:24 pm Thursday, 13th August, 2020


To be with a virgin, the appeal is not on the ego boost. Rather, it is on the idea of making a good impression on her, and perhaps make it a positive experience for her, and in the process, help make it her favorite pastime. 🙂

On the other end of the spectrum, I think every guy secretly fantasizes about being taken under the wing of an experienced mature woman, and being trained in the fine art of pleasuring a woman. Sadly, that bus has long departed in my case. If a lot more women took time to help educate the young 'uns, the world would be a lot better.

6:05 am Thursday, 10th September, 2020

your pics big turn me on

4:22 am Monday, 22nd March, 2021

Care to chat mam

1:18 am Thursday, 1st September, 2022

Very well written and articulated blog, my compliments!

7:42 am Wednesday, 5th October, 2022

I’d always want experienced over a virgin,,, sex is fun and when connected to right people highly enjoyable,, virgins just discover themselves,,, experience pls 

1:14 am Sunday, 21st May, 2023

I prefer experience one, yeah It feels good to be with virgin but I don't enjoy with them that much than the experience one.

11:12 pm Sunday, 11th June, 2023

I prefer experience especially enjoying licking cream-pies 

2:49 pm Monday, 24th July, 2023

U R my neighbour. Great , can we meet. Do revert soon.

1:52 am Wednesday, 1st November, 2023

Be sure that it is always better with an experienced woman who will know how to give pleasure rather than with a virgin without experience

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